Comments on: Just want to be heard. http://suicideproject.org/2009/01/just-want-to-be-heard-2/ share your suicide story with others Wed, 23 May 2012 20:29:49 +0000 hourly 1 By: ellen http://suicideproject.org/2009/01/just-want-to-be-heard-2/comment-page-1/#comment-32888 ellen Sat, 18 Apr 2009 22:15:10 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/archives/2009/01/29/just-want-to-be-heard-2/#comment-32888 Hi! Just holding on here. Please help...keep in mind that I do drink, thus I do not diservice you're help. Hi! Just holding on here. Please help…keep in mind that I do drink, thus I do not diservice you’re help.

]]> By: Sebrina L. http://suicideproject.org/2009/01/just-want-to-be-heard-2/comment-page-1/#comment-19190 Sebrina L. Mon, 02 Feb 2009 17:49:12 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/archives/2009/01/29/just-want-to-be-heard-2/#comment-19190 um well Anne I think that you really shoudnt say sorry for me cuz 1 im not sorry i dont even think that its neccesary for an apology and 2 who are you to say that i havent been there if only you knew of alll the stuff that i have been thru and im only 14( turnin 15 in 9 days) but im not here to compare our stories cuz we can go on for days but what i do know is that there are kids out there who have it worst then both of us kids who have to sniff and huff paint just to make the hungerpains go away kids who get killed by the police for $50 kids who have done absolutly nothing to anyone yet are getting punished well ive been here done that man i even bought the hat and matching t shirt and for you to say i havent is so wrong and plus she said it herself just want to be heard i do care and for you to saythat i dont you are so not in the right place but anyways i still care and love you lots o love Sebrina L. um well Anne I think that you really shoudnt say sorry for me cuz 1 im not sorry i dont even think that its neccesary for an apology and 2 who are you to say that i havent been there if only you knew of alll the stuff that i have been thru and im only 14( turnin 15 in 9 days) but im not here to compare our stories cuz we can go on for days but what i do know is that there are kids out there who have it worst then both of us kids who have to sniff and huff paint just to make the hungerpains go away kids who get killed by the police for $50 kids who have done absolutly nothing to anyone yet are getting punished well ive been here done that man i even bought the hat and matching t shirt and for you to say i havent is so wrong and plus she said it herself just want to be heard i do care and for you to saythat i dont you are so not in the right place but anyways i still care and love you lots o love Sebrina L.

]]> By: Broken Woman http://suicideproject.org/2009/01/just-want-to-be-heard-2/comment-page-1/#comment-18575 Broken Woman Sat, 31 Jan 2009 09:21:46 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/archives/2009/01/29/just-want-to-be-heard-2/#comment-18575 I don't think it is fair to say anyone has not "been there" Whether or not the pain is bearable may differ from person to person. What might be bearable to someone else, may not be bearable to you. This is minimizing the seriousness of suicidal awareness and the above post bothers me deeply. This is not a personal attack, but I'd like to make this clear to Anne and everyone else, considering this blog is used for outreach and self-help. NO ONE OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES, CAN DICTATE THE IMPORTANCE OF OUR FEELINGS. Only we have felt our feelings. Only we have experienced our experiences. So don’t ever accept it if someone tells you, “you're just looking for attention.” or "that's not enough for her/him to want to kill him/herself". Much Love. I don’t think it is fair to say anyone has not “been there” Whether or not the pain is bearable may differ from person to person. What might be bearable to someone else, may not be bearable to you. This is minimizing the seriousness of suicidal awareness and the above post bothers me deeply.
This is not a personal attack, but I’d like to make this clear to Anne and everyone else, considering this blog is used for outreach and self-help.

NO ONE OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES, CAN DICTATE THE IMPORTANCE OF OUR FEELINGS.

Only we have felt our feelings. Only we have experienced our experiences. So don’t ever accept it if someone tells you, “you’re just looking for attention.” or “that’s not enough for her/him to want to kill him/herself”.

Much Love.

]]> By: Anne http://suicideproject.org/2009/01/just-want-to-be-heard-2/comment-page-1/#comment-18492 Anne Sat, 31 Jan 2009 03:20:41 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/archives/2009/01/29/just-want-to-be-heard-2/#comment-18492 i am sorry for what the girl before me wrote to you. she may say that she was there and felt the pain u describe, but she has never been there or she would not have been able to write those things. i hope that you fight the feelings and take care of yourself - please get help, take the meds prescribed and most of all love yourself. i have the exact feelings u have. i have to fight this every day and so far i am getting thru each day. talking about your feelings sometimes is all you have to get u thru the day and the only way u have to maybe get your mind around the problems. i love u and hope that u have a great day today and u will be in my prayers. i am sorry for what the girl before me wrote to you. she may say that she was there and felt the pain u describe, but she has never been there or she would not have been able to write those things. i hope that you fight the feelings and take care of yourself – please get help, take the meds prescribed and most of all love yourself. i have the exact feelings u have. i have to fight this every day and so far i am getting thru each day. talking about your feelings sometimes is all you have to get u thru the day and the only way u have to maybe get your mind around the problems. i love u and hope that u have a great day today and u will be in my prayers.

]]> By: Sebrina L. http://suicideproject.org/2009/01/just-want-to-be-heard-2/comment-page-1/#comment-18181 Sebrina L. Fri, 30 Jan 2009 03:52:31 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/archives/2009/01/29/just-want-to-be-heard-2/#comment-18181 damn this is gonna sound kinda rude but um someone once told me this and i swear i sounded just like you when they told me.dont talk about it be about it if your really going to do it just do it they also said that if i really wanted to do it i wouldnt be talking about it with people i wouldnt be writting about it i would already have done it if i really wanted to die and the truth is i didnt i only wanted a break like time out . but suicide is a permanent solution for a temperary problem its not the right thing to do but hey who am i to tell you and if you think that no one cares ur wrong cuz i care and i dont even know you i would be hurt if you killed urself i really would cuz thats just where my heart is at and about wat tommorow brings girl you can break that cycle cuz i did so i know you can definitely make it thru if i did lots o ove Sebrina L. damn this is gonna sound kinda rude but um someone once told me this and i swear i sounded just like you when they told me.dont talk about it be about it if your really going to do it just do it they also said that if i really wanted to do it i wouldnt be talking about it with people i wouldnt be writting about it i would already have done it if i really wanted to die and the truth is i didnt i only wanted a break like time out . but suicide is a permanent solution for a temperary problem its not the right thing to do but hey who am i to tell you and if you think that no one cares ur wrong cuz i care and i dont even know you i would be hurt if you killed urself i really would cuz thats just where my heart is at and about wat tommorow brings girl you can break that cycle cuz i did so i know you can definitely make it thru if i did lots o ove Sebrina L.

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