Comments on: How do you feel good when everything is screwed up? http://suicideproject.org/2009/04/how-do-you-feel-good-when-everything-is-screwed-up/ share your suicide story with others Wed, 23 May 2012 21:36:32 +0000 hourly 1 By: Pauly http://suicideproject.org/2009/04/how-do-you-feel-good-when-everything-is-screwed-up/comment-page-1/#comment-33608 Pauly Thu, 21 May 2009 17:07:49 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/?p=818#comment-33608 Oh Britt, I should have read all the comments! You opened doors are are being positive! Good and I wish you happy days and a bright future! Thanks for sharing with others how you are coping with your distress. When you are healed, come back and help others find the path to their healing. Hugs and more hugs for taking care of the most important person on the planet... you! Oh Britt, I should have read all the comments! You opened doors are are being positive! Good and I wish you happy days and a bright future! Thanks for sharing with others how you are coping with your distress.

When you are healed, come back and help others find the path to their healing. Hugs and more hugs for taking care of the most important person on the planet… you!

]]> By: Pauly http://suicideproject.org/2009/04/how-do-you-feel-good-when-everything-is-screwed-up/comment-page-1/#comment-33607 Pauly Thu, 21 May 2009 17:04:25 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/?p=818#comment-33607 Black is not a colour, it is the absence of colour ( I am Canadian so that is spelled right) Colours reflect mood and so we all wear colour to reflect how we feel. Black truly is bloody depressing, as a fact! It is why people wear black to funerals. It makes you feel somber and less likely to giggle or be distracted. Choosing black for slimming works only if the clothes fit you. if you feel bright and cheerier in red, WEAR IT! Red empowers me and although I am still overweight ( I was obese) I am called lovely and happy and full of personality. That's because I AM! I smile and am more confident when I wear clothes that make my body look it's best and in the colours I choose to wear to feel good. So many teens have poor knowledge of how they really look or what their true body image is. Please learn to love yourself because we can be our worst enemy by sharing mostly negative thoughts and few positive thoughts with ourselves. I challenge you to take a step in the right direction. Tell that wonderful math teacher who you love that you have not been coming to school because you feel fat and out of place. Telling someone you trust is important in healing. Talk to your parents if you can. Sometimes opening one door leads to incredible opportunities. You have closed too many doors... so go on try it... What do you have to lose. Black is not a colour, it is the absence of colour ( I am Canadian so that is spelled right) Colours reflect mood and so we all wear colour to reflect how we feel. Black truly is bloody depressing, as a fact! It is why people wear black to funerals. It makes you feel somber and less likely to giggle or be distracted.

Choosing black for slimming works only if the clothes fit you. if you feel bright and cheerier in red, WEAR IT! Red empowers me and although I am still overweight ( I was obese) I am called lovely and happy and full of personality. That’s because I AM! I smile and am more confident when I wear clothes that make my body look it’s best and in the colours I choose to wear to feel good.

So many teens have poor knowledge of how they really look or what their true body image is. Please learn to love yourself because we can be our worst enemy by sharing mostly negative thoughts and few positive thoughts with ourselves.

I challenge you to take a step in the right direction. Tell that wonderful math teacher who you love that you have not been coming to school because you feel fat and out of place. Telling someone you trust is important in healing. Talk to your parents if you can. Sometimes opening one door leads to incredible opportunities. You have closed too many doors… so go on try it… What do you have to lose.

]]> By: britt_018 http://suicideproject.org/2009/04/how-do-you-feel-good-when-everything-is-screwed-up/comment-page-1/#comment-32933 britt_018 Mon, 20 Apr 2009 22:35:42 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/?p=818#comment-32933 Thank you and i understand what you are saying but ive been writing in a journal it helps a lot well for me it does and everyday i usually say about 100 nasty comments to myself so when i say 100 nasty comments i say 200 good things im doing better since im seeing a counselor and therapist but thank you and god bless you Thank you and i understand what you are saying but ive been writing in a journal it helps a lot well for me it does and everyday i usually say about 100 nasty comments to myself so when i say 100 nasty comments i say 200 good things im doing better since im seeing a counselor and therapist but thank you and god bless you

]]> By: Sirachick http://suicideproject.org/2009/04/how-do-you-feel-good-when-everything-is-screwed-up/comment-page-1/#comment-32915 Sirachick Mon, 20 Apr 2009 12:44:04 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/?p=818#comment-32915 I don't really know how that is. I'm really skinny and was called anorexic the same why you were called fat. I had no way of gaining wight, still don't, stupid metabolism... Ok, so you're fat right? Well, instead of putting so much energy into being upset about it, try doing physical activity. (Wow, I'm a hypocrite) You'll never look good in all cloths, cloths are made for different body types...But try wearing stuff that fits you, I'm not saying you do this, but a lot of time, people wear really baggy stuff or stuff that's to small on them. It ends up making them look bigger. You can wear colour, black isn't always sliming, and just cause it's known as it, doesn't mean you can't look good in other colors. I don’t really know how that is. I’m really skinny and was called anorexic the same why you were called fat. I had no way of gaining wight, still don’t, stupid metabolism…

Ok, so you’re fat right? Well, instead of putting so much energy into being upset about it, try doing physical activity. (Wow, I’m a hypocrite)

You’ll never look good in all cloths, cloths are made for different body types…But try wearing stuff that fits you, I’m not saying you do this, but a lot of time, people wear really baggy stuff or stuff that’s to small on them. It ends up making them look bigger. You can wear colour, black isn’t always sliming, and just cause it’s known as it, doesn’t mean you can’t look good in other colors.

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