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September 26th, 2009 by lost hopeI went ot a dentist about two years ago to fix a small chip on my tooth that I had for about 20 years … it was very small and periodically repaired by other dentists over the years. Two years ago the dentist ruined my front tooth instead of fixing it. I went to another dentist to repair the tooth and she made it worse and a third dentist made it even worse. Now my TWO front teeth are ruined and I am “AFRAID” to go to another dentist to have it repaired!!! (I tried to make a long story short but now both teeth are damaged . I do not understand !! I tried to file a complaint with the Dental Board and they are not interested…there is no accountability and now I am embarressed to smile. The first time I said okay I got a bad dentist but 2 and 3 bad dentstis !?!?! What is wrong with me, lately wherever I go I feel that I do not fit in, I have been sick for several years and the doctors treat me with disrespect just like the dentsits did!!! What happened to “do no harm”? Why do people look at me and hate me?!?! It is not my imagination, even the few friends I have left say they cannot belive what I have been going through with these denists and doctors!!!! I am tired. I am constantly treated unfairly at work and am sick of it!! I am sick of not trusting anyone!!! And am sick of being betrayed!!!
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September 27th, 2009 at 12:53 am
When I got my first job, I went to a dentist whose office was within walking distance of where I was living. I thought I just needed a few teeth worked on. He drilled on about every tooth I had, even my wisdom teeth that hadn’t come through the gums yet. I was away from home and naive and shy, and I didn’t know he was ruining my teeth.
That was a long time ago, and I don’t even remember his name. I have dentures now. I wish I had sued him. I think you should find an attorney and try to make those dentists pay you for your pain and suffering, and to pay for a good dentist to repair the damage they have done to your teeth. I think different states have different statutes of limitations for how long you have to file a lawsuit.
It seems that when people are abused and just “take it,” others treat them like they must have asked for it, like that’s what they wanted and must want still.
September 27th, 2009 at 1:33 am
Oh I’m soo sorry for you; several years ago I developed periodontal disease, and a few years before that a dentist fucked up taking my wisdom teeth out, he left some broken shards in my mouth that had to be fixed later on that night… so I know how you feel. I am now embarrassed to smile too because my teeth look like toppled gravestones; and I’m only 37 years old, it’s unfair isn’t it. =(
September 27th, 2009 at 3:56 am
I undestand, I really understand what your saying about abuse and it keeps happening to me even though I did try to fight back. I do cause a commotion when I have been wronged. With the first dentist I had called several attorneys and found one that would meet with me. He said I could sue but only f I could get at least one other dentist to denounce him …yeah right…no “professional ” wants to say anything bad about their own (I tried) so I called the insurance comany and complained but they would not help so I went back to the office and and told him I called the insurance company which made him angry but he did give the money back to the insurance company and I got my money back too and still have ruined teeth!!!!! With this third dentist, I am going to try to file again because I have always been a fighter…”stand for justice and the right thing”….but these last ten years have been bad and it keeps getting worse…I don’t know how it all went wrong ….I used to be popular, make friends easily but I have lost almost everything…I have realized ther is a part of me that is highly vulnerable and weak, it seems all people see is that I am different and vlnerable and they want to put me down …they take advantage of their power whenever possible I feel like people treat me like an enemy and these are people who I have never met before. I think Shakespeare said said “Hell is empty, all the devils are here!” That how I feel, I feel that’s all I meet are devils in disguise. I know it sounds crazy but that’s how i feel that’s how it’s been…the past 10 years. I lost so much time, there has been so much hurt, so many times that could have been good….in my early 20′s I was a bartender… I loved my regular customers they were friends but I never understood why they would spend so much time in a dark bar getting drunk when there were so many beautiful things in life to see and enjoy but now I have seen far too many glasses of wine while at home alone and no sunshine or crisp fall days and now I understand drowing out the feelings…feeling crippled, tired of fighting…what happened to justice or just doing the right thing?
September 27th, 2009 at 5:23 am
There are some facts that I’ve proved.
Gums in the mouth represent the health of the stomach.
Teeth represent the health of the kidneys.
The above is theory of chinese medicine and I’ve proved that to be right.
Chinese physiogonomy says that your left upper front foremost tooth represents father.
And your right upper front foremost tooth represents mother.
And I’ve proved that to be correct too.
Chipped means physically hurt of that related person.
If that front tooth overlaps the other, means overpowering.
Two front teeth pointing apart from each other, means parents’ separation or they always argue.
The tooth that missing means departed, or even death if that related person insists staying in the family.
What I want to say is that health or danger always have tell-tale signs before it approaches.
It’s reflected by your body, not God. But if you believe in God, then it’s the mechanism already provided for you.
A person’s ‘magnetic force’ is so great that there are even tell-tale signs from your house, your cars, and from your closest partner and family. All those I have proved. But to you, it may be far-fetched like radio that talks a few hundred years ago.
Why, I’m so poor, staying here, that I’ve been conservative all my life, may be I have to be the messenger I’m supposed to be, boldly telling you this. There is more to life than you understand.
For those in search of an answer to your mystery, just ask, may be I’m your messenger too.
Your friend, Sai Chan
September 27th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
Good for you for trying. You would think it would be proof enough that a dentist would go ahead and try to fix what the last one did wrong. I understand about the devils–I’ve met my share of them. I like to think that, even if it’s not in this lifetime, in the end they’ll get their just reward.
September 29th, 2009 at 10:56 am
eh guys it is a suicide blog not a dental complaints one. for the guy who wrote in the first place, it is not because a bunch of ”smucks” fucked up your teeth than the whole world dislikes you or betray you. this is non sense. do not validate that bad event coz you will just enter in the ”law of attraction” motion and whatever will follow regarding what negativity you build up in your mind. good luck
October 6th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
I know just how you feel. I had perfect healthy comfortable teeth and they have been totally ruined by a succession of evil selfish dentists. I have felt suicidal everyday for nearly a year. Not only have my teeth been ruined but it has affected my health badly. The dentists also ganged up on me and tried to cover up for their colleagues bad work so I have been unable to sue and get the money I need for the mess to be sorted out. I am in pain everyday and terrified of what the future will now bring. I am totally devastated as I have been robbed of something immeasurably precious. How will I eat, how will the loss of these teeth affect my looks? I feel sick to the core. Dentists in the UK are totally unregulated and are wreaking absolute devastation on the British public and there seems nothing any of us can do. It is truely horrible. However, don’t kill yourself over worthless dentists. I’m going to keep on fighting them until I can fight no more.