Comments on: Please no tomorrow.

By: justalvaro

justalvaro — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 23:14:13 +0000

well, the fact that you started another relationship tells that you were very much on the way to recovery. Nobody starts another one unless they feel at least somewhat “ok”. Of course, what happened was that the second boyfriend naturally triggered in your mind associations with the former traumatic tragical experience. I dont blame you in any of your reactions and they belong to a perfectly healthy person being exposed to something like that. What I am saying is that you are beautifully normal but sadly touched by traumatic events. If you have such a beautiful heart, it would be a terrible lost that something happens to it. I know that “dark existence” likes to leave it up to the person, but I disagree with that, because there are cases like yours where with the right help and support and love can lead a happy life and if you are at school, it seems that you are young. God bless you and if i can help you any way either post it here or write me alvaro@ya.ru

By: TheGentleMan

TheGentleMan — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 06:22:21 +0000

Would he want you to have those thoughts or actions? Wouldn’t he want you to be happy and move on? no matter the circumstances he would want you to live a long happy life.

By: dark_existence

dark_existence — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 02:44:41 +0000

That life is yours to decide on, and no one else can tell you what and what not to do. Whichever you choose, I pray that you finally get what you’ve long been looking for. My heart goes for you.

By: ferrantee

ferrantee — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 23:27:10 +0000

I can’t say that I can relate to your situation. I will not pretend to be one of those people. But I can tell you on thing; things can and will get better. You realized that once, but thought your results lied with a boy. Other people don’t define you, you do! Every day is a chance for change. Ok. Ill stop with the cheese, but please, don’t make that choice.