Comments on: Can’t Take It Anymore

By: Christina

Christina — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 05:41:53 +0000

im here and i care and i understand so write to me!!! i better hear from you!

By: Experienced Dilemma

Experienced Dilemma — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 10:07:59 +0000

I feel for you and do understand on a certain level the pain you are going through. I am the same age and also have PCOS so i get the kind of shame that comes with that. At the moment i am having one of my bad days but coming here and finding your story it has given me hope that we can get through this. I do believe with enough will power you can get through it.
Several years ago when i was in hospital i found that the thing that got me out of it was having a goal. So my advice is find something you are really passionate about or have always wanted to do and try to make a plan of how to make it happen.
If you ever want to talk feel free to post me.

By: i.survived.91

i.survived.91 — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:34:43 +0000

You’ve been through so much, so why give up now? It HAS to stop sometime right? And it will!! It’s unfair for us to go through so much, that too at such a young age. And you need to work towards it! You need to realize that you have survived through all this for a reason. Life is going you so many chances and you need to take advantage of that. I agree with the comments above me. Family is so important! No matter how boring or obnoxious or crazy they are! There is a bond you will find with all your members and you should aim for that with your grandpa and mom. I know how boring community college can be. But if you work towards a prestigious degree, you’ll get an awesome job and will be so proud of yourself! I know community colleges don’t offer much extra curricular activities, but get yourself out there! Join a club. Volunteer at a place that you will like; with children, adults, or seniors. There’s so much! Maybe you can find a part time job to take off your mind. Maybe you can pick up on a hobby that you like. Don’t let all the sorrows around you stop you from becoming whatever you wanna be! Go for your dreams. Email me at i.survived.91@gmail.com if you think it helps talking to me. I can share with you what I went through as well. Take care!

By: SadGirl

SadGirl — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 22:26:23 +0000

You are so young, you shouldnt be going through this. i have been through this same thing, except mine wasnt with weight, mine was with my skin, i have acme and the way i dressed. i was teased all throughout school, which includes gradeschool and highschool. i was abused by my father from ages 3-12 and it ruined my life. i have had my own suicide attempts. you need to stay positive,write down your feelings in a journal, tlk to someone about it! you are a beautiful person! dont listen to those stupid bitches and assholes! you are an amazing person, those people just dont see it. please keep in touch with your family, you never know when you might loose someone you love:’(

By: JTomcan1

JTomcan1 — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 20:58:48 +0000

Your 23 you have so much life to live. Life is hard,and if anyone says different, they would be lying. Everyone has their flaws, You have to love yourself, most people do not look the way they want to , I have battled with my weight my whole life, and lost loved ones, lived in an abusive household, and had many depressing moments, I was tortered in school by stupid kids. But as an adult most adults don’t make fun of you anymore, unless they are completely immature. You are your worst critic, there is somebody out there for everyone, you need to love yourself first before you can let anyone else love you, it sounds like your grandpa cares about you. please remember you are special and beautiful, who cares what other stupid people think, they have their own insecurities, they are just assholes. You will one day see that you are a wonderful person and people do love you, you need to open up and build up your self esteem, then you will see your life will start turning around. I hope nothing but the best for you! Life does eventually get better, you just need to be positive! Family is the most important thing in your life cherish every day with them.