Comments on: Don’t Fit Into This World http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/ share your suicide story with others Thu, 24 May 2012 15:50:14 +0000 hourly 1 By: chiaroscuro http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/comment-page-1/#comment-39404 chiaroscuro Mon, 15 Mar 2010 10:29:18 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/#comment-39404 I agree with everything z said. You are young and have the opportunity to re-invent yourself. Believe it or not social skills and charisma can be learnt. Look at people like Stephen Fry, not the most handsome of people (I think), but almost certainly one of the most charismatic people in the world. One of my favourite actors, Seth Green, is very short. He's done ok. As for your teeth, they can be fixed when you have some money. As for sports, nobody cares whether you are good at sports after high school. It's a none issue - you can get fit without playing sport. You've never had a gf in high school. That's unfortunate, but not uncommon. If you improve yourself, that will change. You sound like you've been dealt a harsh hand, but that doesn't have to define you. I agree with everything z said. You are young and have the opportunity to re-invent yourself. Believe it or not social skills and charisma can be learnt. Look at people like Stephen Fry, not the most handsome of people (I think), but almost certainly one of the most charismatic people in the world. One of my favourite actors, Seth Green, is very short. He’s done ok. As for your teeth, they can be fixed when you have some money. As for sports, nobody cares whether you are good at sports after high school. It’s a none issue – you can get fit without playing sport. You’ve never had a gf in high school. That’s unfortunate, but not uncommon. If you improve yourself, that will change.

You sound like you’ve been dealt a harsh hand, but that doesn’t have to define you.

]]> By: demonsinthenite http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/comment-page-1/#comment-39397 demonsinthenite Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:57:11 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/#comment-39397 social charm and charisma is what a lot of bad and nasty fake people have... be aware that you although awkward now have a light inside you that shines through your writing and you will make it.... for you are aware of yourself and that will save u ultimatly. U have love and are capable of it, u are young enough that love will grow and u will blossom. Hugs to you. social charm and charisma is what a lot of bad and nasty fake people have… be aware that you although awkward now have a light inside you that shines through your writing and you will make it…. for you are aware of yourself and that will save u ultimatly. U have love and are capable of it, u are young enough that love will grow and u will blossom.

Hugs to you.

]]> By: K3T http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/comment-page-1/#comment-39385 K3T Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:50:09 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/#comment-39385 you really should not waste your time doing such things. you've only got so long to live. try to quit porn and do something actually productive. find a Bible online or somewhere in your house and just start reading it, start at the new testament. you'll be alright if you just seek meaning, instead of pleasure. please talk to me if you'd like to. my contact info is at skull09.net i would love to help you. take care please you really should not waste your time doing such things. you’ve only got so long to live. try to quit porn and do something actually productive. find a Bible online or somewhere in your house and just start reading it, start at the new testament.

you’ll be alright if you just seek meaning, instead of pleasure. please talk to me if you’d like to. my contact info is at skull09.net i would love to help you.

take care please

]]> By: SF09 http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/comment-page-1/#comment-39378 SF09 Sun, 14 Mar 2010 15:59:29 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/#comment-39378 firstly, you are a very expressive writer...ever looked into things you can do with that? getting your feelings out is the first way to start. im glad you decided to stay alive for your mom and your grandma but the most imp thing here is to stay alive for yourself. you are important on your own, so live for yourself. high school can be the worst or best years of one's life, so trust me, once you move on to college, you find more ppl who are like you. and dont worry about the way you look, its amazing how much ppl change when they grow out of their teen years...stick around until then to find out..and ofcourse stick around for long after that too =) find some hobbies that will keep you out of the house and ur basement. gettng out there and getting physically involved in, like z suggested, biking is a great way to tire you out, make you feel like you did something good for your body and is a great way to release your feelings. by the end of the day, you'll prbly be too tired to spend time in ur basement. you've got everything going for you in terms of grades and family and an amazing ability to write. please continue to do this, and remember that u'll meet someone when u least expect it. hope this helps. cheers and good luck! firstly, you are a very expressive writer…ever looked into things you can do with that? getting your feelings out is the first way to start. im glad you decided to stay alive for your mom and your grandma but the most imp thing here is to stay alive for yourself. you are important on your own, so live for yourself.

high school can be the worst or best years of one’s life, so trust me, once you move on to college, you find more ppl who are like you. and dont worry about the way you look, its amazing how much ppl change when they grow out of their teen years…stick around until then to find out..and ofcourse stick around for long after that too =)

find some hobbies that will keep you out of the house and ur basement. gettng out there and getting physically involved in, like z suggested, biking is a great way to tire you out, make you feel like you did something good for your body and is a great way to release your feelings. by the end of the day, you’ll prbly be too tired to spend time in ur basement.

you’ve got everything going for you in terms of grades and family and an amazing ability to write. please continue to do this, and remember that u’ll meet someone when u least expect it. hope this helps.

cheers and good luck!

]]> By: justalvaro http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/comment-page-1/#comment-39376 justalvaro Sun, 14 Mar 2010 15:32:33 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/#comment-39376 Well let me tell you young boy. If at that very young age you are capable of writing in such an enlighting, witty way, you have an extraordinary talent. It could be that because of the perception of your own faults, your mind has matured far beyond that. You are going to be very lucky because, and remember this when you find your girlfriend in college, she will be extraordinary, a girl you will not want to lose. If instead of wanking in the basement, you decide to organize a story for a book, do it, you do have the talent. You tube is rubbish in general unless you select specific topics, precisely because it represents what the social mass is, mediocrely vulgar. Definitively you are not one of them, and what you should do, is being very happy and proud for what you have produced out of yourself, and with that confidence, continue to build something positive, like the book i tell you you could write, or learn a programming language, or something useful but dont waste the time in the basement. cheers Well let me tell you young boy. If at that very young age you are capable of writing in such an enlighting, witty way, you have an extraordinary talent. It could be that because of the perception of your own faults, your mind has matured far beyond that. You are going to be very lucky because, and remember this when you find your girlfriend in college, she will be extraordinary, a girl you will not want to lose.
If instead of wanking in the basement, you decide to organize a story for a book, do it, you do have the talent. You tube is rubbish in general unless you select specific topics, precisely because it represents what the social mass is, mediocrely vulgar. Definitively you are not one of them, and what you should do, is being very happy and proud for what you have produced out of yourself, and with that confidence, continue to build something positive, like the book i tell you you could write, or learn a programming language, or something useful but dont waste the time in the basement.
cheers

]]> By: z http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/comment-page-1/#comment-39370 z Sun, 14 Mar 2010 07:01:53 +0000 http://suicideproject.org/2010/03/dont-fit-into-this-world/#comment-39370 It sounds like you are in the right spot for a new start. Get a bike and start riding, or do whatever thing you like to do and do it well. If you like, say, disc golf, go out and do that (you can play at night too, email me for details). You're young, start getting ridiculous with fitness/recreation and everything else will fall into place. You are free to reinvent yourself however you like. Instead of porn and video games, start reading some Bukowski or some Hunter S Thompson. There's much to life, you're young, and you're not what anyone says you are, you are you and you kick ass. So go out there and kick some. It sounds like you are in the right spot for a new start. Get a bike and start riding, or do whatever thing you like to do and do it well. If you like, say, disc golf, go out and do that (you can play at night too, email me for details). You’re young, start getting ridiculous with fitness/recreation and everything else will fall into place. You are free to reinvent yourself however you like. Instead of porn and video games, start reading some Bukowski or some Hunter S Thompson. There’s much to life, you’re young, and you’re not what anyone says you are, you are you and you kick ass. So go out there and kick some.

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