I’m always alone. Depression has taken everything from me. I have lost all my friends and the old myself. There is no one whom I can turn to. People only talk to me when they want something from me. That hurts a lot…knowing that nobody cherishes me. Even on this site, I have no friends. No one really gives a damn about me. I feel like trash or dirt. How pathetic I am ! I don’t even want to see myself in a mirror because my own reflection makes me disgusted. I want to rip off my face with a razor so that nobody would recognise me and I could start forgetting who I am. Maybe it’s not enough. I feel like death the only way to end this pain and my meaningless existence. Am I right or wrong? Does anyone have an answer? Maybe no one does.
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Hi there. I’m new to this site but I can assure you, I will be your friend 🙂 I know what you mean about feeling like nothing and feeling life is meaningless- it’s one of the reasons I want to end my life. I’m not sure if suicide is the way to end the pain but I do know that it is a way to find peace. However, this peace is not guaranteed I think. Mainly because you don’t know what’s out there after you die. I think that alone is what makes me so hesitant of killing myself right thus moment.
I think in a previous post under comments you mentioned you were from new Zealand. Where abouts? I was born in Dunedin.
Well my friend, the only person who has the answer to your question is yourself. You’ve probably asked yourself many times before and replied but so far I think you’ve just been giving yourself the wrong answer. If you’re still here that means that suicide isn’t going to be the best choice, it’s the less complicated choice yeah, but in the end with suicide there’s never an answer. It’s just like closing a book you stopped reading after so many years have passed. Never finding out just what could have been.
I don’t know your age but by judging from what I’ve seen everyone else’s age to be I’m fairly certain you’re pretty young. And to me if you didn’t quit in the very beginning you’re not ready to quit now, at least that’s how I’ve seen things and that’s how I’ve lived this long as well. I know I can’t convince you to think otherwise most likely, just because someone says it’s not so bad doesn’t necessarily change the way we believe it to be in our own minds, so I’m not going to bother to throw out a meaningless, ‘you’ll be okay,’ like so many other people have done in older posts.
No, what I’m going to tell you is this; isn’t this just fun? I mean seriously, this is some fun shit brother. Who would want to miss out on this suffering? Some really beautiful outcomes come from tragedy, sorrow, pain, and suffering. I think it’s the way of human nature. We’re all in it for a ride, and if the ride wasn’t ever bumpy we wouldn’t ever have any challenges or satisfaction from this place, and then we could really be in some deep trouble when thinking about suicide. But in all seriousness, there’s never an end to our stories until there are no more pages left, and that’s not up for us to decide. Chance and faith are the equilibrium here. And the bad moments define who we are and make us more adaptable to people who really matter.
And I could say I know where you are coming from because I’ve been there but it wouldn’t be true. Sure I’ve thought the same thoughts as you but I would never understand what kind of hell you’re going through. We all have our own hells and I had gone through mine more than I’d like to say. But what I can say is that after going through hell and staring death in the face I always decided to see what’s behind death’s black curtain, if only to see a day when I can be truly content with myself for once. And even though that day may never come, to be honest it’s up to us to decide when we become content but I guess I’m just not ready for that yet, but I still like turning another page because the story I’m writing is a heart wrenching turmoil of beautiful mishaps and simple moments that really make everything worth it. And those moments are ours to decide what they are. Everyone has them and can have them, even yourself, so you can decide either which way. I won’t tell you what you can and cannot do but I can always show someone the alternatives in case they see some other path they would like to take instead.
So take this information as you will and do with it what you need to. Just remember that you’re the one in charge, you’re the only one that can judge here. And you don’t have to take other people’s shit if you really don’t want to. So make your choice, and walk down your path, but whatever it is you decide to do just make sure it’s powerful man. We are what we want to see in the world, and examples need to be set.
-Taurus
hey i can relate this in so many ways i know how it feels to feel like this ill be you friend and ill care if you are willing to let me. if so just let me know il be more then happy to talk to you
Hi all,i am new to this site.I’m always alone. I have depression similar to ‘loneliness’.
People only talk to me when they want something from me. That hurts me.Here I am getting anything on conditional basis,even love,sex,respect,affection,help,attraction.attention etc.All are running behind money.Thats true for me,if i don’t have money to use net to access this site,i could not have talked to you.I tried to commit suicide and escaped 3 months back.
@vmy19: I’m in Auckland. So, you are in Dunedin, right? What’s your age? Are you female or male?
Yeah, I’m pretty young, but I I want to kill myself before my birthday…just want to cease existing.
Lostsoul49: I’m living in Indonesia now. I moved to Australia a few years after I was born so I’ve mostly lived in Sydney. I’m 15- young, I know- and female. What about you?
vmy19: Oh, I’m older than you. I’m 18, female, a freshman in college. People talk about their future all the time. I’m tired of hearing it. I just want to quit life…don’t want to live past 19.What’s the best way to do it?
Why Indonesia? Don’t you want to move back to NZ? If you were here, I would want to meet you.
I dont like it when I hear people talk about their future, but I hate it even more when they talk about mine.
I don’t want to condone suicide, but I’d say hanging. Personally, I’m going to OD and that has a low success rate but when I was 13, I tried hanging- couldn’t do it. I’m just going to make sure everythings perfect and hope for the best.
Im living in Indonesia because my mums family’s here. I’m not sure if I’d want to move back to nz- most of my friends and family are in Australia. The relatives I have in nz are from my dads side and we don’t get on. But if I were there, I wouldn’t mind meeting you 🙂
Why do you want to die? I want it to be quick, so I wouldn’t OD. Shooting myself in the heart would be the best way to go, but I don’t have access to guns. I think hanging or drowning would be a good choice.
Oh, my email is: dilemmasw1990@yahoo.com
Feel free to email me.