I’ve come to realize setting a date may be ‘counterproductive’
how many of you/us have set a date, only to found (y)ourselves thinking: “I’m going to stay a little longer, even if I …”
doubt-based thoughts start to make their way through your mind
sometimes, you aren’t really in the mood for killing yourself at set date
it’s like, you’re more likely to make an attempt IF you catch your mind off guard (= follow an impulse, your intuition)
every time I tried to kill myself, I hadn’t planned to do it that day
what about y’all ?