I’ve met countless people who seem to believe that wanting something as hard as you can, or telling yourself something is true, will make it happen, or will make it true.
I suppose there are certain situations where this could be somewhat valid, but that’s not how life in reality usually works. I’ve certainly tried it myself. ^^
Anyway, the point i was trying to make, is this: sometimes you have to accept that what you want more than anything in the world, is impossible. It sucks, i know. But accepting it is how you open the door to a world where something else worthwhile can happen. Locking yourself in the room full of memories of a person you’ll never be with, is not going to correct their absence. It’s only going to deplete the remaining time you have, to find someone else who is worthy, while deteriorating your physical condition, which reduces your chances to find someone else worthy.
Here’s where “want” matters again: you have to decide you Want Out of that room, to get better, to be an acceptable manifestation of yourself, so that you can feel “whole” and content with yourself… so that someone else can see That version of you, so that you will have the chance to find that other worthy person, instead of staying locked in that room.
if he dont love you thats not good,pleas dont wait to long,if he realy loves you he wil come back to you.dont wait to long or it will be 10 years later,,this time you can spend with another instead
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Well Juliet, then enlighten all of us here why you are spouting out sonnets instead of lying in bed with your dear Romeo?
Let me guess…. he’s no longer around?
Yeah, sorry but you’re going to have to figure out how to get over it. Or in your case, just give it some time. A lot of time lol…..
Do you expect that wanting something bad enough will make it happen?
probably not… I wish things worked like that though
I’ve met countless people who seem to believe that wanting something as hard as you can, or telling yourself something is true, will make it happen, or will make it true.
I suppose there are certain situations where this could be somewhat valid, but that’s not how life in reality usually works. I’ve certainly tried it myself. ^^
Don’t underestimate the power of luck clever <.<
Anyways….whats going on with the love life?
don’t forget: luck is not just for good things. Some people have atrociously horrible luck.
Still sounds unhealthy. And like Rain Man.
Anyway, the point i was trying to make, is this: sometimes you have to accept that what you want more than anything in the world, is impossible. It sucks, i know. But accepting it is how you open the door to a world where something else worthwhile can happen. Locking yourself in the room full of memories of a person you’ll never be with, is not going to correct their absence. It’s only going to deplete the remaining time you have, to find someone else who is worthy, while deteriorating your physical condition, which reduces your chances to find someone else worthy.
Here’s where “want” matters again: you have to decide you Want Out of that room, to get better, to be an acceptable manifestation of yourself, so that you can feel “whole” and content with yourself… so that someone else can see That version of you, so that you will have the chance to find that other worthy person, instead of staying locked in that room.
if he dont love you thats not good,pleas dont wait to long,if he realy loves you he wil come back to you.dont wait to long or it will be 10 years later,,this time you can spend with another instead