So I’ve done something that I’m not proud of at all. Being a Christian makes it worse. It also makes me a phony.
Ive been caught for doing this once before. Once I get a hold on internet connection, there is no limits for me. I get out of control, obsessed and desperate. It’s embarrassing for me really.
I went on something called ‘Meowchat’ and I started talking to some guy. He asked for dirty talk, and I gave it to him. I got nothing out of it, really. He then asked for nudes. I said ‘no’.
I sort of pressured me into sending one picture to him, but I only showed him one boob. Nothing more. He asked for more but I told him to forget it.
My dad found out. He is disowning me now, he’s telling my school, the police, my shrink and I’m planning on moving out again for the third time in my life.
Life is so wonderful, huh?
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Doesn’t sound wonderful, but your dad will forgive you. You said Christian Right? They are forgiving people. You can’t change your mistake but hey we all make them! What u need to do is start focusing on what you CAN change NOW. Your dad sounds like he wants what’s best for u just don’t see it that way do u.. Try to Hun, and remember u can only fix yourself who u are now not then. Everyday is a new day to have a fresh new start. Goodluck.
Ugh, bad situation. But like nobodys said, I think your dad is trying to do what’s best for you, even though he’s royally screwing things by telling your school. And the disowning thing, well that’s just him being an idiot. Parents are known to do that.
The main thing is not to beat yourself up. You didn’t do anything hellishly wrong. Even if you’re a Christian, I don’t think there’s any commandment about Thou Shalt Not Show Thy Boob On The Internet. I’ll have to double check though.
I figure as long as your actions don’t cause harm or distress to other living beings, literally no harm done. It may not be the smartest thing to do if you plan on running for public office one day, but hell, I’ve done enough wild n crazy dumb stuff when I was young to get me impeached. I think we all do, even your overreactive father (who is probably overreacting because he’s done things just as questionable). You should be proud that you knew when to stop it from getting out of hand. :thumbs:
Wow, that is pretty terrible. The internet is a terrible place to be. You can do so many things from behind a screen, that people forget that there are consequences to the actions you make.
You are Christian, right? Christian’s are usually forgiving people, and your dad will forgive you eventually. He can’t hold a grudge forever. It will take time, but you made a simple mistake, and it can be fixed. Sure the picture is there forever now, in the internet.- But, once you own up to it, you’ll feel better, you’ll forgive, and I’ll gurantee that it wont surf the net.
Sounds like you dad is a fucking idiot.
I may be cruel, but I just laughed at this.
Oh yeah, the same guy who does brilliant comments on everyone’s threads, I wonder if writting a decent comment is above your capacities.
I wouldn’t say that though, WSiff. My mum even laughed at his comment when I showed her. And my dad really doesn’t let things go, so it’s going to be really difficult to get over.
haha thankyou, and yeah he can be.
Well, your father lost it when he spoke about it and disowned you in front of others.
Wow, your father is really good at catching you jumping over the fence, I must give him some points for that.
But well, I normally don’t speak about it, if you were my daughter I wouldn’t let you show it to others. But hell, what the fuck I am doing here, can’t opine over something like that.
I’ve read about your story, maybe he is really scared because you become like your mom~~
He already said that I’m just like my mum. It’s not easy having a dad who is an investigator.
I have a Meowchat. I know the struggle in some way. Guys ALWAYS ask but I ignore them or block them. They can be really annoying.
Umm I don’t want to be judgemental but I think that was a bad idea. I mean it’s your body and you can do whatever you want with it but if a girl doesn’t value herself who will? Who will respect her if not her? I’m sorry you’re going through this.
Thankyou
Wow. So you’re gonna get disowned ’cause you flashed one boob? Good thing you didn’t flash ’em both or you might’ve been stoned to death.
I don’t understand why Christians can be so uptight about nudity. Everybody is nude underneath their clothes. Everyone has boobs. Everyone’s seen ’em. There are billions of boobs on this planet. Billions. How is a picture of a boob that much worse than a picture of a finger, a toe, an ass cheek or a nostril? Apparently boobs are “dirty” even though newborn babies feed there. Whatever.
haha I love that. But it’s true.
I once had this late-teens girl send a picture of her derriere to me, followed by “oops, how the fuck did that happen?!” I says to her, “you’re full of shit, but also under-age. I may be drunk and a little too horny, but I’m not stupid enough to rail you either”. Honest to goodness, I thought she was just going to let me know that her brother was going to meet with me soon. But no. Actually, she’d be of age now… Hmm…
Anyway, careful out there – horny bastards are plentiful in this fucked up world.