Its midnight and I’m sitting outside asking myself “what makes me “beautiful”?” I asked my boyfriend and i will post his response down below along with my opinion on others not myself as examples. So my question for you guys is, what makes someone beautiful in your opinion?
His opinion: “Honestly I can say every physical attribute, you’re fine to a tee, your skin, hair and eyes, lips and nose, body, adorable and majestic is your physical appearance but your attitude and emotions, the way you act in certain situations, that’s a real beauty in itself, you’re so cute on the inside even if you don’t see it and it’s the way you love and the way you want to love that’s beautiful too”
My opinion: The way you are on the inside makes up for everything on the outside. Kindness plays a huge role in being beautiful. The way someone interprets things and handles situations. Their emotional state and their connection to other beautiful things. The way you love and your sincerity towards certain people. Consideration and openness. Creativeness and uniqueness. That’s what makes someone beautiful in my opinion
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Usually it helps if you have a nice face and body to start with. Good demeanor and personality can make someone seem even more attractive. A chilled, laid-back attitude and someone who is open to new ideas-especially around someone like me because I’m well read and I love to throw out crazy statements just to see how people will react-and make them think. If they’re abrasive/then it’s a turn-off. Maybe if they have a “hidden talent” like being able to sing or play guitar can probably double your attractiveness factor.
Conversely, if someone is mean, selfish, causes problems for others, is irresponsible, makes them ‘ugly.’ My standards used to be much higher but nowadays sometimes I find that even ‘average’ girls can be attractive if they carry themselves well…but the body has to be there. It’s pretty much universal, being out of shape/fat is not attractive. A pretty face is not enough. But that’s just my perspective.
Hm that’s an interesting opinion and damn you posted as soon as I updated my post haha
Thanks, glad you liked it (assuming you did). Haha, ya topics like this tend to grab my interest-like a shark to chum. 😀
I think that intelligence makes someone beautiful. O~o
Agreed. Being wise and mature says a lot about someone, but then again whats “intelligent” to you?
In my opinion intelligence means knowledge, wisdom, skills/talents and good sense of humor (the last one is a theory of mine, i think that most of intelligent people have a really good sense of humor).
Ya I once dated a guy who was smart, but he had a very deep knowledge of certain subjects and would present ideas in a fascinating, subtle way. I did find that very attractive.
I don’t like ‘intelligent’ people who act like they’re geniuses and make other people feel or look stupid. I’m well educated but there’s still a lot I don’t know and am always open to new ideas.
Ok time for me to sign off, nite all.
Pain. Struggles. Tears. Scars. Someone who despite all sufferings, still can smile, be kind and help others. There is a young girl around my neighbourhood who is fairly average looking, but she feeds and takes care of stray kittens. Such kindness touched and inspired me and I think that is beautiful. It is indeed from the heart. Rich ladies with perfect skin, glamorous dresses and heavy makeup but bullying others? Not beautiful.
Beauty comes with pain, and pain also comes with beauty. I remember during my poorest times, I needed shoes for school. My mom purchased a very cheap pair, very ordinary, very grubby looking. But it was bought with money from her struggles, and that pair of shoes is the most beautiful shoes for me.
Now a certain degree of wisdom, intelligence and independence is also necessary. Being kind to enemies or those who have betrayed and caused pain to you is, for me, far beyond the context of beautiful but is in fact, stupidity.
Beauty doesn’t necessarily mean happiness. You can be lonely, in pain, full of scars, broken, handicapped, be living in the darkest corners of the world, and can still be beautiful. Beauty is innate.
Hogpotter, you reminded me a bit of this poem: fleursdumal.org/poem/307
shiny, clear skin, perfect maxila, perfect height to frame ratio, tall dom looking, good facial width to height ratio, perfect norrow and straight nose, deliciously big ass and boobs(for women ), fit with 6pack body(men), non balding well defined hair line. this are the only criteria for beauty. anything else is coping. you have them?you are set for life;you don’t have them ?you are the only one everyone can agree to be gas chambered!