My stepfather has gone into “septic”. And has a chance of dying. I really don’t care too much what happens to the piece of shit either way. He abused me and basically took away my childhood growing up. Am I a bad person?
Nope, you’re not a bad person for hating someone who abused you. Also it’s nice to see someone get their comeuppance, the Germans call it Schadenfreude.
No. You are not a bad person. You are being honest with yourself and that makes you a person with character and power of judgement. You are a good person who suffered a lot.
No you are not a bad person, enough people on here will agree with you, I will say something a little different, why do peole do bad things? why does life have to be so fucked up? why do people do things to other’s that haunts them and literally makes this life even harder to cope with? i say the man’s dying, going septic! karma? anyways it’s you i’m worried about, i say don’t wish anyone bad thoughts, and accept people are stupid, self centered, mean, and so on, i’m sure he realizes he is going to the grave knowing the horrible things he has done if not now later, that is his problem, i myself only care about how i go out, i don’t want to go out with feeling guilty about anything, not a bitter thought, also coming to peace with what others have done helps you heal faster and quicker, here’s one of my bad analogizes, lets say i married i bad person, wound up getting divorced, i may not forgive and forget, but i won’t let it effect future relationships, that wouldn’t be fair to me or the next person, self healing has to do with moving on and not living in the past, anyways i hope something i’ve said is helpful? i play devils antiquate quite a bit.
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Nope, you’re not a bad person for hating someone who abused you. Also it’s nice to see someone get their comeuppance, the Germans call it Schadenfreude.
German parents are usually pretty tough… my parents didn’t physically abuse me but they did play mind games on me.
No not really. My parents always used to kick my ass all of time when I was a kid but it was only because I used to raise hell
No, that doesn’t make you a bad person at all. If somebody had a huge negative impact on your life you have every right to hate them.
Of course not. People like that don’t deserve compassion.
No. You are not a bad person. You are being honest with yourself and that makes you a person with character and power of judgement. You are a good person who suffered a lot.
No you are not a bad person, enough people on here will agree with you, I will say something a little different, why do peole do bad things? why does life have to be so fucked up? why do people do things to other’s that haunts them and literally makes this life even harder to cope with? i say the man’s dying, going septic! karma? anyways it’s you i’m worried about, i say don’t wish anyone bad thoughts, and accept people are stupid, self centered, mean, and so on, i’m sure he realizes he is going to the grave knowing the horrible things he has done if not now later, that is his problem, i myself only care about how i go out, i don’t want to go out with feeling guilty about anything, not a bitter thought, also coming to peace with what others have done helps you heal faster and quicker, here’s one of my bad analogizes, lets say i married i bad person, wound up getting divorced, i may not forgive and forget, but i won’t let it effect future relationships, that wouldn’t be fair to me or the next person, self healing has to do with moving on and not living in the past, anyways i hope something i’ve said is helpful? i play devils antiquate quite a bit.