So today me and my friend were supposed to hang out.. But we didn’t because the time, the place everything was messed up. I got very upset because it seemed like he didn’t care at all.. And I was really hoping to since home sucks (it also seemed like he didn’t want to hang out because we weren’t going to hang out at my house) and I lost a good friend (my Therpaist whom didn’t die! She just moved buildings and I wasn’t able to go with her to continue seeing her)..So I just ignored my friends snaps. It helped to calm me down somewhat. But he just kept snapping me. I’d look but not answer and eventually he caught on that I was mad and asked me if something is wrong. But the way he worded it made it seem like he was an ass and being impatient with me. I LIED to him saying I was ok but seriously it makes me angry because if I don’t reply to his snaps he gets pissy at me and when it’s the other way around it’s completely ok. Like honest to god it’s so unfair. I DIDNT want to reply to him for a very good reason. He’s pissing me off so much today. Friends don’t treat each other like this. I shouldn’t have to fear his response to how I feel.. I feel if I have to lie it’s a bad sign..
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Hello, When people do that to me ask questions like an interrogation, i turn it around, i will answer their question like i’m not upset, then go on to say people lately people have been pissing me off asking me questions in a unsympathetic way like their farts don’t stink! an it just annoys me! what are your thoughts on this? then they will do one of two things, they will ask do i annoy you? which i would say of course not! your not like that! are you? which makes them think, or they will say give me an example? which i would reply really i can’t because i tuned them out right away because i think their making an ass of them self, and i don’t give them the time of day. in other words i let them know with out a direct confrontation they sound like a jerk! 🙂
Sounds like you were most upset because you didnt feel like you were important to your friend. Since it didnt seem to matter to your friend if you hung out or not. It doesnt sound like much of a friendship if you cant tell him when you are upset or why you are upset because you are afraid of his reaction. Do you have reason to be afraid of how he will react, has he responded badly to your feelings in the past? I think pretty much everyone gets mad when you ignore them though.