who actively looks for dates for over a year and doesn’t even get close to one? Me. Who lost the only person who genuinely did like them because of paranoia. Me. I can’t wait to get the strength to finally find out what’s on the other side. I hope it’s soon
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I have moments like this all the time. Your just having a moment of weakness. But you got to snap out of it and stop feeling sorry for yourself and break the cycle even if its for a little bit. You sound really whiny and defeated right now and that’s not attracting anyone. You can do it, and I’m sure there are guys/gals here willing to meet you and find out more about you. AM I RIGHT HINT HINT WINK WINK THAT’S YOUR CUE LONELY HEARTS CLUB. Almost everyone needs dating advice, so theres nothing wrong with you, your not broken and there isn’t anything your doing wrong. Just stuff you need to work on. If you want to self improve, think about all the things that you can CHANGE and work on them TIRELESSLY. That means not to give up after a year, it means NOT to give up ever. Because commitment like that is always rewarded and its not someone everyone is willing to do for themselves.
I forgot to click the reply button and left my response as an ordinary comment. Duh silly me
I know what you mean. It’s just I haven’t felt like this for atleast 8 months and all that work has come crashing down and its mentally and physically exhausting knowing I have to build all that again especially whilst working long hours and trying to keep the anxiety at bay by forcing myself to socialise. And unfortunately I’ve never been a huge believer in ‘there’s someone for everyone’ ‘commitment pays off’. There’s just no basis for it just like ‘fate’ so for all I know it could be in for a life of heartbreak and lonliness and not the lonliness of not being around anyone, but the even worse kind. The kind when you are surrounded by everyone but you still feel so very distant. But In saying that, the fact I don’t believe in fate means I can hope that I can change the future for the better.
Well you seem like a smart guy and your getting things done. Work is synonymous with stress and the fact that your working those long hours tells me your probably just tired. Dude I was on craiglist for a month now looking for a date or casual friend and I know that shitty feeling well when no one seems interested in you in the least. I suffer from social anxiety myself and can’t keep a job because of it. I’ve had more temp and part time jobs than I can remember in the past 5 years. The fact that your working means that your not doing bad at all my friend, your doing your thing so keep it up. Women just complicate things I can’t stress that enough. But if your hell bent on dating, then try something different. Have you changed your profile pictures on whatever site your using? Swag it up, put on gold chains and take a picture with a low rider in the background for the profile photo and show up in your bow tie and crocs. The first impression is important so that online profile has to be right.
I appreciate you taking the time to reply 🙂 it’s also the first few messages on these dating website aswell, I just can’t seem to keep a conversation flowing which is a problem I have in real life with people I don’t know. I’m sure it’ll happen but I’ll just have to wait until someone makes more of an effort with me, than me