How is it that couples can be so freaking happy while I’m all alone?
I see everyone with someone else. And they’re so happy. And they don’t even care that I’m not.
I sound like I’m 13 going through teen angst, I know, but this is ridiculous. I’ll never find love, I know that. I’ve known that for a while now. But why can’t they stop and see how much that fact is killing me?
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i think you’re trying to hard, thinking about it to much. love will find you, just stop searching for it….
I’m afraid if you keep searching for love, then you will one day find yourself with a history of bad relationships. Look for activities like you like to do and engage in those awhile, look around you and see what needs your city has and the volunteer your time to meet that need. For more info.. visit myworldmyplanet.
When you are giving love to the world, with your heart in the right place.. then.. love will find you, and it will be worth the wait.
Blessings to you,
Dani
I know how you feel…I am suffering the same fate as if I cant escape it. but then I realised that its not about getting into a relationship but liveing to see the day that you helped others find love to save them from the deps of darkness that you were once in.
good luck to you.
I, too, know how you feel. Though I am young, I still know I won’t find love. It’s just who I am, and that makes others unable to love me. But I do love to help others find those who love them. I am pretty good at that. So.. find something like helping out. Eventually, you’ll find someone you absolutely love. Even if you can’t marry them, maybe it’ll be a friend. Or a child. Or just some person. I’ve learned that I can’t DO anything because too many people love me, and I completely realize that. So maybe, even if you’re unhappy with their happiness, try to find the good in it. Help them. Help others. Not every person will notice you’re unhappy, just because they’re caught up in their own happiness. It’s natural.
Not everyone has a bf or gf. A lot of people have not found that special someone.
For me it just happened. I didn’t try to find that special someone, but I did find her.
Unfortunitly I lost her. Some say it’s better to have loved and lost, but losing her hurt so bad.
I’m single too (by choice) and have been for an extremely long time. If you don’t focus on it, if you find other things to make you happy (and trust me, there are lots of things) then it will get better and eventually you will find someone. Just don’t give in and don’t give up. 🙂
i’m sorry you feel this way, but i know what youre going through.
i have felt that way myself.
but i decided to look away from that.
i have been through alot of bad relationships that have lead me to pain.
and the best way to focus away from feeling alone is to find a passion in life and focus on that. and in time things will come together and you’ll find that someone.
also, you can’t be mad that other people have someone.
they can be happy too. contain your jealousy and keep your head up.
it’s really not that bad, just sayin.
Hey you know you can feel alone with a beautiful spouse next to you being alone is not a matter of having a partner its a matter of soul I should be happy with my 4 great children and trophy wife yet I am haunted with sadness , the honey moon ends than you become emotionally responsible for 2 or more people not just yourself and its even more painful to hurt those you love .
The struggle to justify our pain and sadness is really what we need to understand before we inflict our emotional instability on others .
I guess I am trying to tell you to learn to be happy on your own before you try a union with another .
remember those couples that shine in public might feel very alone even laying next to that spouse .
I can not even be intimate with my wife and it hurts her she thinks its her I just am so emotionally detached that its hard to be vulnerable in any way .
I know there must be a place in this world where the sun will shine on my soul and awaken my inspiration but its seem a loss .
so please try to find that place and that sun will attract what you seek but don’t create more potential pain for others until you are ready .
Charles
I know how you feel.
I to know exactly how you are feeling. I just lost my Dad who I was very close to and he lived in Ca. and I am up in the state of Wa. I am on oxygen 24/7 and I could not go to his funeral. No airline would let me on with supplimental oxygen and I could not drive there as I am very ill. I mean,even if I was feeling up to making the trip down there,I don’t have enough oxygen tanks to make it down there. I am also in the end stage of my lung disease which is Emphysema. I have roughly 15% of my total lung capacity left and I am always in pain and short of breath even with the supplimental oxygen. So,lets just say I have been thinking of meaning harm to myself all the time. I don’t want to suffer from suffocation,or the painful sudden heart attack.I also been experiencing visions of losing my wife in a automobile accident and what would happen if I was widowed and alone with no one here to take care of me.My wife,Wendy,is an awesome wife and she takes such great care of me.I am really afraid of myself and what I would do to myself if I were alone with noone here with me.
Heartbroken in Edgewood Wa.
Rodney