Let me first say im just sad, not depressed or suicidal
just sad
alright here goes
my ex bf of 1.5 yr broke up with me a month ago, and it broke my heart, u see i really love this guy, more than anyone else, and my friend helped me through it. and we became very close.
a few weeks ago me and my ex got back together, i kne that he didnt love me any more or feel the same way ect. but he said he missed me, alot, and i really missed him, so we got back together.
Unfortunately for me i got alittle deeper in him and then its over again and once again he broke my heart
but this time its different
he likes my friend alot and she likes him alot, and she wont go out with him because i love him alot, and shes a good friend
i am guilty. because i want both of them to be happy, because i really love this guy and care about my friend, but i kno that she would go out with him if she could, but she wants to stay friends with me
i cant b her friend if she does that which will make me very upset, but its wrong for her to not go out with him u kno? i cant b her friend or at least a close friend cause id be jealous, more that jealous, it would hurt very bad
but im bing selfish right? but idw to loose my friend when i just lost the guy i love more than anything
oh and im his friend to, idk if that changes anything
well if i could have some input that would b great! and thats really it
4 comments
maybe you should try getting over the guy and see how that goes?
Well, I don’t know.. but as long as you love him, and obviously you can’t compare your love for him with her love for him (fucking 1.5 years!), I think that she shouldn’t be with him.
That’ll just ruin everybody’s relationship with everybody.
well it seems to me like your in highschol… that seemes like a young thing to have to decide over. if she is your friend then she wouod not have to even think about it. she just wouldnt. for him… well that happens wih us guys. we do lose interest even if w are extremely happy. You show me the most beautiful girl in the world and i will show you a guy who is bored with her…
She needs to understand that by doing that to you even if you guys tried to be friends it would totally ruin your guys relationship it happened to me and now i lost a friend…If she really loves you and cares about your feelings then she will stay away from him.