I’m at the end of my tether, I actually feel that I’ve reached the end of the line for me. Over the last ten years or so I’ve battled feelings of despair and hopelessness. I had been studying in the hope of an academic career but repeated breakdowns made me abandon that. Now I have a job that I regard as a dead end with no real prospect for advancement, and I can’t even buy a property where I live, in the current economic climate. My goal in life was to be creative, but much of my current life is anything but. My creative efforts lately have not come to anything – I feel I may not even have anything more to say as my spirit is so broken. I feel unable to form a proper sexual relationship and the longer my current situation continues (I am 37) the more hopeless it all feels. I have friends, but feel completely alone and isolated most of the time. 5 years of counselling don’t seem to have helped. I feel particularly bad right now as my frustrations with work (I inadvertently managed to alienate and upset one of the people I had a good working relationship with) and everything else surfaced at the end of year work do and I lost control of myself, getting thrown out of the bar and losing face in front of my colleagues, looking a complete jerk. A few weeks ago I seriously contemplated suicide – I took a tab of LSD instead and things seemed temporarily better but now they are just grim again. The frustrations and feelings of uselessness are eating away at me 24/7 and I just want to put myself out of my misery.
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it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been going through it – you’re not too deep in your despair if you’re still alive. please don’t try any artificial means of feeling better, and please don’t assume that killing your body will lead you to anything better.
please take care, and read my post here: http://suicideproject.org/2009/12/please-let-me-help-20/
thank you for reading
k3t you talk about killing your body as if that were a separate thing as if there was something else aside from the body. How ignorant! how is it possible that in the XXI century there are still people who believe in soul and that artificial inventions of men