My partners mum drove to a field in the middle of nowhere, covered herself and her car in petrol and set light. She did not live. This happened around 4 months ago and my partner was doing ok and i think things have now started to sink in. He is (understandably) a complete mess. He doesnt drink now he is out every night, he goes missing for a few days now and then and i dont know what to do for him. I thought maybe if i could find someone who has been through the same tragic ordeal they could talk?? does anyone have any ideas? please get back to me would be much appreciated. many thanks.