def. tooooooooo young to wanna end it…but whats the matter why is everyone mad at u, bad grades is fine dont worry about it just study and ask for help…write to me if u wanna…
listen, people will try to take advantage of your willingness to try for them, but don’t let it be for these kinds of these. good grades in school or bad grades – these are unimportant. if people react with anger, they aren’t being good to you. please don’t let them crush you. what i suggest is that you try to lower the bar that you may have let them set so high. just lower the standard. let them not think to expect so much from you. and if they get angry, tell them that love is not angry, and that love doesn’t get angry for such unimportant reasons. also, please try praying, that will really help. forgive them for being angry with you. take care of yourself please, and if you’d like to talk to me, especially about God, please go here: helpmesaveus.com/contact
and whitney, don’t be cruel please, or why shouldn’t others be cruel to you?
Oh my sweet 12 year old…………ending your life over bad grades is not something to die over. If that were the case, there would be NO ONE left on earth………EVERYONE has gotten bad grades and you are going to get more in middle school, high school, college, grad school……..People being mad at you……..that will happen until the day you die at 100 years old. Something else is going on and it is probably hormonal along with other things. Here are some POSITIVE things you can do to help yourself.
#1 You need better coping skills. And you can get those by reading, getting into a support group.
#2 Talk to the school counselor. They have alot of good knowledge and good information to pass on to you.
# 3 Talk to your Mom, Dad, brothers, sisters, cousins, whoever you feel close to. You need a SUPPORT SYSTEM right now. You need someone to talk to, to learn from to grow from.
#4 Get outside, play soccer, play softball, play basketball, join a bike club, walk club, swim club.
#5 Get a good group of friends.
#6 Whatever your spirital belief is, start trusting your faith more, going to church, if you do that, temple, if you do that, meditate, if you do that. Trust in a higher power.
You are only JUST begining your life. TAKE CONTROL OF IT and do NOT allow others to hurt you. REMEMBER BETTER COPING SKILLS are needed. You will need those for the rest of your life. It will make your life SOOOO MUCH EASIER. You are a great young boy/young girl. Your life is just starting. Try to consider the above. It WILL HELP. Take care. It WILL get better. You are in my heart. Much love to you. JenZea
i cant say that you should take my advice because i am also a suicidal kid under 14 years old (i dnt like saying my age, people react differently and somtimes negatively). Ive been cutting for over 2 years and have wanted to end my life for even longer. Who ever said being young was easy? Try karate. It somwhat helps me. tae kwon do is too methodical and controlled though. Try somthing that lets you go crazy and actualy wants you to beat the crap out of the pads and people.
after a while you might even make friends with the other people there like i eventually did. The best part is that it is impossible to fail and the people ther will respect you. If not. Make them respect you.
But then again. im still a royal screw up who cuts and thinks about suicide. Its your decision to make. Your choice. Enjoy.
I too had bad grades and was bullied and picked on in school (the bullying led to bad grades because I skipped school so much), and eventually dropped out after 10th grade. But, now I look back and wish I had gotten help instead of just quitting. I eventually attended night school and received my GED from the State, but I short-changed myself in the expanded knowledge and experience dealing with the social issues I could have gained. Find a loner friend in school with good grades to help tutor you. You’ll not only improve your grades, but your social life as well.
yeah it’s horrible im in middleschool though. and it’s just horrid, the teasing, the name calling, heck i think if they put one of those machines that beeps when a cuss word is said the bus ride home would probobly just beep the entire way. but i guess i can say my motivation is when i grow up and get out of here ill be the one on the news doing great while they will probobly have spent all of their parents money and be living on the streets. most people think school is stupid and it is. the learning helps you but the rest is just a wasteland. dont kill yourself is probobly what im trying to say. just plan out for the future and get your grades up. mabye make friends that are superficial jerks and enjoy life.
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def. tooooooooo young to wanna end it…but whats the matter why is everyone mad at u, bad grades is fine dont worry about it just study and ask for help…write to me if u wanna…
e-mail-mkafan12@yahoo.com
…that’s why you’re depressed?? Wow.
listen, people will try to take advantage of your willingness to try for them, but don’t let it be for these kinds of these. good grades in school or bad grades – these are unimportant. if people react with anger, they aren’t being good to you. please don’t let them crush you. what i suggest is that you try to lower the bar that you may have let them set so high. just lower the standard. let them not think to expect so much from you. and if they get angry, tell them that love is not angry, and that love doesn’t get angry for such unimportant reasons. also, please try praying, that will really help. forgive them for being angry with you. take care of yourself please, and if you’d like to talk to me, especially about God, please go here: helpmesaveus.com/contact
and whitney, don’t be cruel please, or why shouldn’t others be cruel to you?
Oh my sweet 12 year old…………ending your life over bad grades is not something to die over. If that were the case, there would be NO ONE left on earth………EVERYONE has gotten bad grades and you are going to get more in middle school, high school, college, grad school……..People being mad at you……..that will happen until the day you die at 100 years old. Something else is going on and it is probably hormonal along with other things. Here are some POSITIVE things you can do to help yourself.
#1 You need better coping skills. And you can get those by reading, getting into a support group.
#2 Talk to the school counselor. They have alot of good knowledge and good information to pass on to you.
# 3 Talk to your Mom, Dad, brothers, sisters, cousins, whoever you feel close to. You need a SUPPORT SYSTEM right now. You need someone to talk to, to learn from to grow from.
#4 Get outside, play soccer, play softball, play basketball, join a bike club, walk club, swim club.
#5 Get a good group of friends.
#6 Whatever your spirital belief is, start trusting your faith more, going to church, if you do that, temple, if you do that, meditate, if you do that. Trust in a higher power.
You are only JUST begining your life. TAKE CONTROL OF IT and do NOT allow others to hurt you. REMEMBER BETTER COPING SKILLS are needed. You will need those for the rest of your life. It will make your life SOOOO MUCH EASIER. You are a great young boy/young girl. Your life is just starting. Try to consider the above. It WILL HELP. Take care. It WILL get better. You are in my heart. Much love to you. JenZea
i cant say that you should take my advice because i am also a suicidal kid under 14 years old (i dnt like saying my age, people react differently and somtimes negatively). Ive been cutting for over 2 years and have wanted to end my life for even longer. Who ever said being young was easy? Try karate. It somwhat helps me. tae kwon do is too methodical and controlled though. Try somthing that lets you go crazy and actualy wants you to beat the crap out of the pads and people.
after a while you might even make friends with the other people there like i eventually did. The best part is that it is impossible to fail and the people ther will respect you. If not. Make them respect you.
But then again. im still a royal screw up who cuts and thinks about suicide. Its your decision to make. Your choice. Enjoy.
I too had bad grades and was bullied and picked on in school (the bullying led to bad grades because I skipped school so much), and eventually dropped out after 10th grade. But, now I look back and wish I had gotten help instead of just quitting. I eventually attended night school and received my GED from the State, but I short-changed myself in the expanded knowledge and experience dealing with the social issues I could have gained. Find a loner friend in school with good grades to help tutor you. You’ll not only improve your grades, but your social life as well.
yeah it’s horrible im in middleschool though. and it’s just horrid, the teasing, the name calling, heck i think if they put one of those machines that beeps when a cuss word is said the bus ride home would probobly just beep the entire way. but i guess i can say my motivation is when i grow up and get out of here ill be the one on the news doing great while they will probobly have spent all of their parents money and be living on the streets. most people think school is stupid and it is. the learning helps you but the rest is just a wasteland. dont kill yourself is probobly what im trying to say. just plan out for the future and get your grades up. mabye make friends that are superficial jerks and enjoy life.