okay, so i did some stupid stuff. i went out, got drunk, and ended up having sex with two,maybe three guys, within two days. i hate myself for it. i feel slutty,easy,dirty,gross,low, and i want this empty feeling to go away.im trying to forget him;; but im only hurting more and more. i miss him so damn much. he was and still is my BEST friend. i tell him everything. we talk, a lot. still. he still asks me to kiss him and stuff. but i cant not want to be with him anymore. i have dated since him, but no one made me happy. i hurt people to try to be happy. i feel horrible for what i’ve done. to eveyone, including myself. i try so hard to be happy, but no matter how hard,or what i do, ic an never be happy again. it hurts..a lot. worse than it ever has..i cry all the time. i hurt too much. i want the pain to end!
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Sweetie start over. . . enough time heals everything, and go get some support from a therapist if you can. Most offer sliding fees. A really good therapist helps to make changes in our lives. If you decide to seek help, I really hope you get one of those. If not keep trying, I’ve had some good therapists and some not so good ones. I moved 1/2 way across the country when seeing one therapist. Another one got me all the way through 5 years of college. I call those two women “good therapists” they helped me and guided me in a way that motivated big changes in my life.
I know it is not easy to change oneself, I couldn’t . . . it really takes a village!
That is right. Sometimes u have to reach out and try to seek help in a different environment. If u dnt have the support from friends n family find it else where. That’s what I am tryn so hard to do. Maybe its time to close thjis chapter in ur life and start a new one with a more positive outlook.
I’m sorry you feel so empty. What you’re doing is normal in its own abnormal way…lots of people try to fill that emptiness inside through sex…I’m really sorry you’re in such a sad place!
The right therapist can help and I hope you find her or him, but things don’t change over night, and until that change process begins, these feelings will continue…and I’m deeply sorry that you have to endure such feelings! I truly am.
u have no idea …. ur situation sounds so similar to mine in such a weird way … i almost feel comfort in knowing that its not an individual thing … i truly , completely empathize with you and your situation . i couldn’t feel worse if i tried …. being unloved is the worst thing that one could go through .
my aim is jessins94 . let’s talk (: