I have a  problem. I have recently come off anti depressents, I do 2 jobs, both part time. i recently put my mother in a home because her altzsimers was getting too much for my dad seeing as he is about 84,… I can’t do life anymore. it is too hard. I have recently discovered that one of my ex girlfriends is rapidly becoming a world famouse poet, and unfortunutly for me i really loved her.
I can not go on with this.
I always don’t have enough money… I hate wher i live.
wtf am i supposed to do….
pleae help me
everything i do seems bot to be enough. I can’t bring myself to see my mother. it is too much to bear, because i loved her and remembered all the better times.
my sister and father don’t seem to want me to see her.
I have nothing left
I have no one.
what is the point?
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IT IS CALLED *********OVERWHELMED !!!!!!!!!!! ************** PLEASE don’t hurt yourself or kill yourself. You are going through MAJOR CHALLENGES in your life right now. It sounds to me like you are a VERY strong man with ALOT going on. My humble advice………get back ON those antidepressants……..THOSE will help you to cope with ALL that you are going through. Take one crisis/challenge at a time….prioritize which one is the most important and take it from there. Although really EVERYTHING seems so overwhelming when a person is depressed, TRUST me – I KNOW about severe depression. So PLEASE, get back on the meds, allow them to kick into your brain. Things will still seem challenging, although you WILL be able to handle everything. Just prioritize, talk to people who will give you comfort and love, and LOVE YOU, you are worth everything good and it sounds like you are doing your very best, ESPECIALLY with your Mother. Take care of you. You are in my heart. Jen 🙂
i don’t know how you can get out of the situation you’re in, but sometimes what you really need is the strength to endure it. you still do have your father and sister, so please don’t forget them when you say that you have no one. i also suggest looking up “natural treatment for alzheimer’s”
i don’t think you should think too much about your ex girlfriend anymore, because you’ll half be desiring her and maybe half desiring to have somebody who is world famous – and that’s not really what would lead to a healthy relationship.
will you please talk to me? i know how to cope with the world’s challenges, all of them, and i know that there’s more meaning to suffering than to an easy life. please pray for strength, and not so much an easy life. if you’d like to talk to me, my contact info is at skull09.net
thank you for reading, take care please
1–Yes. You seem jumpy without the meds.
2–Don’t build traps. Feeling guilty won’t help. Regretting won’t help.
3–What’s done was done. Let go. What doesn’t belong to you, it’s not yours.
If really love the ex, and not selfish to possess, then let her do what she wants.
She is not a child, she has the right to live as she likes.
4–Don’t expect her return. The more you want, the more likely you’ll fail.
Same case applies to guy with a load of sperms on the first date.
The best is sending her a congratulation note, or the similar kind of plain friendly way, but expecting no returns from her.
This is just a gesture of pure care. The rest will be left for her to decide.
5–Of your mother, visit only when you’re ready.
During visit, you may tenderly hold her hands, close your eyes, smiling with joy, wish all the good things deep down in your heart, the happiness you once with her.
It’s the gratitude you can at least do as a return to your mother.
The joyful heart will soon fill you, and imbue the rest of your family.
6–Of the money, worrying won’t help.
As long as you’ve done your part, you’re alright.
If you have organised well your thoughts and behaviour, your family will also turn way round to the better.
Until then, your mother or father may even get better, and can spare the care-centre fee !
Even a poor life, the heart of joy or sorrow is entirely up to you !