im happy now but there have been alot of times ive been depressed and its bound to happen soon.but heres one thing ive decided and i kno its stupid but im 15,almost 16 and ive never had a girlfriend or have kissed and its embarrasing and i really want a relationship with a girl and i want to feel loved.ive really liked 6 girls in my life and every fucking time i fuckup andnothing happens ihate it and frustratesme.my friendhas had plenty of gf n also had sex.im gona killmyself if nothing happens before im16
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sorry your feeling the way you do, but saying to fate/destiny/god/whatever you believe in that your going to kill yourself unless you get some action won’t help, (I’m not sure if that’s what you meant) anyways life doesn’t have to be about how much girls can you get or getting married but if that’s what you want then how come your friend hasn’t tried to set you up with someone?
I’m 17, never had a girlfriend and I’m glad. (no that’s not the reason I’m here)
it’s okay , don’t worry . a girlfriend is not going to make you any more or any less happy , unless she’s truly your soulmate or close enough , but most relationships made at this age aren’t bound to last and all they’ll do is teach you lessons , most of them come in the worst ways possible . so don’t feel too bad .
as for the kissing / action part , you don’t technically need to have a girlfriend , u can just have a friend-with-benefits so that you can fulfill your “needs” (we all go through that)
i’m 16 and i’ve had both boyfriends and girlfriends before but i’ve never engaged in sex , i’ve had the opportunity to do it , threesomes even , but i denied them all . ive seen people have sex infront of me , and even though it didn’t make me sick nor did it make me wet , it just didn’t mean anything to me and i just left the room when i really didnt want to view live porn infront of me (that’s practically what it was -___-) to me personally , sex is not only personal , but something that should be shared with someone who’s emotionally and mentally in tune with you and your needs , not just a random person who’s either going to bad mouth you afterwards or might not even speak to you again . That’s just my personal criteria and take on it .
But don’t feel too bad . Hopefully , you’ll meet the right girl someday , just give it time . Don’t worry about it too much , just jerk off or find a fuck buddy for now (i know it sounds wrong , but this world is corrupt as it is and sex is free , so fuck what people may think about you , this world is too opiniated) i personally have my own standards but i don’t criticize the rest , do whatever floats your boat (:
This time I will take a role of Justalvaro and say you something really original: You are still young enough! 🙂 OK now seriously, if you have your social life then everything is all right, because sooner or later you will find someone. If you want just sex – don’t feel bad just because many of your friends are doing it. In fact there are many of people who are much older then you and they have never had a sex.
Only problem can occur if you have some disorder preventing you from engagement in social situations.
to be honest sex dosnt interest me too much, i just want a girlfriend to like make out with be happy for awhile ykno? n also so i could get over with it like wen someone asks if iv had a gf b4. i kno it sounds but its important to me. and my friend isnt really that good of a friend i mean i probly only have 1 good friend, hence the reason im on this site.. i still stand by wat i said. n diferent things make diferent people happy
and to be honest im not desperate there have been a few girls who wanted to go out with but they just werent to one, iduno maybe i want it to special but i turned them down, im not looking for a sex buddy
Everyone need someone special. It’s natural. I know it can be very uncomfortable when someone ask you “Have you ever had a girlfriend?” I renember how I felt when someone asked me this when I was 17. And you know what? Now I’m 24, never had a gf, currently don’t have any friends and still it’s one of my least problems. So you have it better than me.
You said you are not desperate? Then why do you want to kill yourself? I don’t get it. It’s OK to be desparate. It’s OK to wait for someone special, but you can also try to go out with girl who don’t seem to be that special, and you can find out she is much more interesting then you can ever imagine. Or maybe not, but if you don’t try you will never know.
Man how much hypocrite can I be? Because I’m the one who have never tried…
Entity: That was really well put . You never really know if that person is special or not until you’ve actually given the the opportunity to prove themselves .
And yes , it’s pretty normal to feel “desperate†sometimes , but you can’t let it get the best of you even though sometimes the feeling may be overwhelming and sometimes even depressive . You truly just have to give people a chance if you want a relationship with them , whether or not they’re special you’ll figure it out later , it’s not one of those assumptions that you can make by first looking at the person . And if they end up not being for you , then now you know , and later on look for someone who’s coherent to your mental / emotional needs . But you only learn that through trial and error .
wen i say im not desperate i meant that i dont want to settle for just anybody if u kno wat i mean. yea i totally get wat ur saying its just sometimes wen i meet a girl talk to them get to kno them, they just arent right at all but everybody i like never liked me back,sorry but people different to different things, were all unique
I replied to one of your later posts, but as I went to close the window on this site I found myself wanting to share something with you. And this is quite personal so I might bitterly regret posting this later, but nonetheless:
I have been with my partner for 4 years. Over the past 6 months, we have not had sex because the anti-psychotics I am on make me not want to, and also the last time we tried, I blacked out. Leaving aside the fact that you’re underage, I just wanted to let you know that it isn’t always rainbows and butterflies.