I’m not really looking for help , because there is just nothing that can be done , I was just born this way and no matter how hard i have tried to change it in the past , I cant. The only way for me to free myself from this personality , from this existance is to … pull the trigger.
I degrade women, I couldn’t care less about their personalities. The only thing I care about is their curves , ass , breasts , waistline. Their face , is it perfect, imperfect , bearable , cute , ugly , dog ugly. If I meet a woman out the first thing I look at is their ass, I dont care about who they are, although I want to care , I coudn’t be bothered trying to be romantic, although I love romance. If she’s not a slut and not easy i’ll call her a ***** and walk away, . If I kiss a woman and she’s not very good looking I will avoid her the next day and never speak to her again , if she is good looking I will chase after her. I hate how almost all women , all good looking women think that your trying to chat them up even when you just want to talk with them, brighten their day.I worry how I’ve never had a girldfriend and that I will never have one , or if the opportunity comes I won’t know how to act.
I’m just getting started guys.
I worry about everything. The most important thing to me is what people think of me. I don’t like standing out , but I also hate being ignored, I feel like they don’t think good of me, when i’m ignored. I live in a small town where everybody knows everybody. If you do something everyone will know about it. I kissed one of my friends ugly sister. She is a lovely person, but I’m not attracted to her at all. I cant look at her sober. I avoid her at all costs. Everyone knows that I kissed her by the way.
I can’t stop worrying about 2012 and the end of the world. I cant stop worrying that I will die a virgin. I cant stop worrying about world hunger , poverty , racism, sexism. I go insane when peoples rights are ignored. I worry about bullying , about people who get bullied , how do they feel. I want to knock the teeth out of every bully I see, every human being that I see being unfair or treating others different, teasing them. I’m scared that I will spend the rest of my life at this computer , not living life but playing games and ignoring the world.
I hate when I see a happy couple. I hate when my friends meet someone and develop a relationship , become boyfriend and girlfriend. I feel better when they break up. I feel pathetic when they get back together. I cant stand people who are in a relationship.
I would to anything to have a deep relationship with someone. But she has to be good looking. I cry when I think about how im all alone.
My dream since the age of 6-7 of being a proffesional basketball player has gone to shit as I started smoking , drinking , and I quit playing basketball. I watch professional basketball games and wish that was me. I worry about my body. I want to have a lean muscular body but I couldnt be bothered working out and I hate myself for it. I’m a preety big guy , and I try to act tough , but i’m a coward and I worry that people are starting to notice it. I hate my voice , it’s too childish and innocent. I try to talk in a different tone , but I think it comes out weird and people think I try too hard or that im weird. My friends use to ring me all the time and ask me if i wanted to go out , but i wanted to stay at home and play the pc or i didnt want to be seen with them , so i often turned them down. Now very rarely people ring me . I stay at home most of the time and I hate my self because of it.
I’ve got the most important summer of my life coming up. Exams , which will decide my future. If I go to college or get a job and work pay check to paycheck for the rest of my life.I cannot stand school , I cant stand the people in it , yet when I miss a day i worry that I wont pass my exams this summer. I worry if I dont get into college what should i do with my life? On top of everything i wrote above.
I cannot stop worrying. My head is about to go. I’m about to loose my sanity. This isnt healthy , and I know it.
So, you think your fucked up ?
I know this post makes no sense , but it feels good to be honest with myself. I look at what I wrote and I’m a fucked up human being .. I dont know what I want, and how can i find it if I dont know what it is?
2 comments
only thing I can try and help you out with: you said “I cant stop worrying that I will die a virgin.”, who gives a fuck man, if it weren’t for movies like American Pie would you really care that much about it? trust me the sooner you stop thinking about the opposite sex the sooner you’ll realize there’s much more interesting things out there. Even if your a bit big and you can’t do much athletic things there’s other stuff you can do eg. learn to play an instrument, write a book, buy a telescope and look at the moon every night etc. (yeah I do that last one)
“She is a lovely person, but I’m not attracted to her at all”, have you watched the movie ‘Shallow Hal’, if not then you should watch it IMMEDIATELY… seriously, it sends a very good message. I made a mistake in high school based on looks but never mind that… who would you rather be with in the long run: the sexiest woman on earth who will treat you like shit every single hour of the day and raid your wallet no matter how much you protest. OR would you rather end up with an ‘ugly’ girl who will always remind you everyday how much she loves you. I’m not saying all good looking girls are bitches or that all ugly looking girls are angels. I’m just trying to help you with your mindset, don’t judge a book by it’s cover.