I’m the tyrant that is the cause of your death. i cause you to suffer and sob while i looked and didn’t care. Only anger was what came from me. I looked at you cry and it made me want to scream at you to shut up. It made me want to cause more pain and suffering for you. it made me happy to know i was doing this. It helped ME. Only me. That is who i cared about. But i will show you kindness. Kindness i make you believe is true and pure. But it is simply a mask. A mask for hate to wear and enter your heart so it can tear it out from inside. This is what a Tyrant does. It gets your trust and abuses it… This is what i do… i am doing this to her… i am making her not want to live.. i want to stop. i NEED to stop.. but i can’t… i need help.. someone please… i don’t want to be this person… i need help…
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Hello Steven. We all have vast potential to spread ugliness and beauty. Your letter shows your desire for both. All of this reply to you is just my opinion and I’m not pretending to know how to fix your concerns. But I have been through hell and back many times and I know what I believe. To a point anyway.
You obviously are not only ‘this person’ you speak of. That you recognize the error of ‘this person’ is huge in that it shows your love. Yes! Could be if you were to focus on why you feel accomplishment when you inflict pain, you could better understand why you’re doing it.
Have you ever really thought about love, hope and happiness? Why someone would need it in their life? How people feel without it? The incredible gift it is when we instill these things in others lives. I believe when you sincerely attempt to connect yourself with another and give them these gifts, this beauty begins to overtake the ugliness inherent in our lives. We always will have that potential for ugly, but we can make that our minor, instead of our major.
Please don’t just go through the motions. Try to understand and feel the effect of the cause you are making. The ongoing emptiness and ugliness of fake kindness as opposed to the snowball effect throughout your life of real kindness. Enjoy the kindness you can share by realizing how it really feels. Bask in the reality of kindness instead of throwing fronts at someone. Allow your beauty to smother the ugly.
I hope that somehow this made some sense to you.
It’s a good thing that you realize what this is doing. The next step would probably be to tell her everything you wrote here. I’m not sure, but that is what I think.
Steven, I sometimes act like that to–or at least very similar. I don’t know why, but I know I have to change, because I don’t want to lose anyone important to me.
I’m trying by telling what I’m doing as best I can, and what I want to be doing, and then letting the people I tell try and help me as I help myself.
This way is working for me, even though it is taking a while, and it’s hard to be so patient. I think that you should try it, but it is up to you. If you change, that is up to you. If you stay this way, that is also up to you.
Things like this… they cause damage, and that damage takes a while to repair, and not always completely. But you, at least, are showing that you’ve already started.
I wish you luck. I truly hope that you will be able to become the person you really want to be– and not ‘this person’, who you clearly said you don’t.