im 21 n hav been married an getting my divorce, my husband would beat the shit out of me every single day at least once if not more in the same day n still trys to get to me so im not srry for feeling like this i think i hav a right to wanna off myself, since everytime i go to bed i hav nightmares bout wat happened n cant sleep n cant even b round ne guy witout freaking out, ive went from a nice out going girl to basicly a suicidal shut in, i just don hav the energy to do this nemore, to b so scared n terrified that i cant sleep, n hav flashbacks all the time i can barely go into a store witout having to leve right away an then on the other hand i hav so much hate toward him wat kinda of peice of shit beats a pregnant women till she cant walk or even hold nething, or smashs her head into walls n the floor n cabinets then chokes her still her heart n last breath leve her body then do cpr on her just to say oh that was all ur falt by the way, i think wtf how was that my falt, then goes on later that night kicking her several wit his combat boots on into her belly so hard that she has a bruse on it n the baby stops moveing..an tells me if i say nething bout wat he did no one will ever find me…….then takes her to L & D n tells them she fell down stairs n then leves her there at 2am wit no ride home, she ended up walking at least 7miles to get home to find him passed out on the couch, he was lighting up that he had a text she so pissed she picked it up but it was locked but he allways uses the same password for everything so she takes the lock off n reads the messages n guess wat theyre all from this girl that aparently he was over at her house wen i was in the hospital n this chick is saying how she had such a good time n cant wait to do it again n that if he could go down her longer next time he cums over, grr wtf he beats the shit out of her n cheats on her,…….ugh so i ask how am i not suppose to b depressed n suicidal n maybe even a lil hamoicial????(srry if the spelling is a lil off)
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Hello,
As long as you’re on the internet, please look up “abused women”. There are so many excellent resources for women in your situation. They can help you in every way you need and DESERVE! That person hitting you once was one time too many!!!!
You say you’re in the process of getting divorced. That’s awesome and you’re awesome for pulling out the strength to do this. But still, if you haven’t been already, contact organizations for abused women. Be persistent with these efforts (just contacting them is all you have to do to start). They are there to help you on a daily basis. They will be your strength when you don’t think you have any!!! Eventually will come the day when you’re the one helping others. But right now, please contact them.
Of course you’re going to feel terrible with all of this hell going on, and that’s just how the punk wants you to feel. You can turn this around. Many before you have. Now many of them are waiting to help you!!
You may think you are broken. No!! It’s not you – it’s him!! You are very young and can and should have a beautiful life. But PLEASE understand, you need to be persistent – so please let these organizations help you. It’s what they do 24/7. PLEASE contact them. The world needs to be able to experience your beauty, and it’s about time you started continuously experiencing the beauty of the world. YOU DESERVE IT!!!
Please continue to write here if you want to let your feelings out. There are many people on this website that sincerely care.
I Wish You The Very Best!!! YOU DESERVE IT!!!
John
I’m sorry but, FUCKING REPORT HIM!!!!!! Don’t call police instead go to a police station and bring them pictures of your injuries, tell them how it was him that made you lose your baby, tell them everything. And I say go to the police station because it would be safer for you then been left alone with him when the police leave if you called them over.
Since you said you were in the process of a divorce, I was thinking you’re not living together anymore. It sounds like the different examples you give of the physical abuse the punk inflicted on you aren’t going on right now, but the mental anguish is. If you are still living together, please follow the advice of MyChoice now! If you aren’t living together, you absolutely still need to get to the police station and file a restraining order to start with.
But PLEASE, get involved with the abused women’s organization. They know where you’ve been and where you are. They can do wonders for your mental health.
i did lose the baby, an i kicked him out of my house n hav an order of pertcection but this still bothers me a lot, an sum ppl think im blowing it way out of perprotion
Don’t let people sway you. Someone watching a person who’s drowning, will probably be thinking of how terrible the person feels. Genuine feelings. But, unless they recently almost drowned, there’s no way thay can comes anywhere close to understanding the true horrors!
Think of the ideal way you and any other person should be treated in a relationship. Then just think of a small portion of the way you’ve been treated. If you were starting to believe these people, then what I just mentioned should answer any doubt you may have been putting on yourself.
It is my understanding, and as very unfortunate as this next fact is, the vast majority of abused women will, to some degree, begin to feel that they are the guilty one. Sometimes just a little and sometimes allot. That is part of the battered women syndrome, and is such an obscene fallout of these situations. You can gather strength in knowing that by standing up for yourself, you are also standing up for those experiencing this situation now and those that are sure to follow. It wasn’t too long ago that partner beating was a strictly taboo thing to bring up. In many countries it still is. Please connect with those that are too frightend to stand up on their own, those who feel they have no voice, those who have been frightend into believing they deserve this hell.
Believe me, you have the spiritual support of so many that hope that somehow some angle, some miricle will come into their life. That miricle, that angle, is you! In putting out any positive strength you can, and by not continuing to feel guilt, you are sending out a very positive messege to the world! It may sound corney or “overblown”, but it is not. We’re all interconnected. Please, a step at a time, send out that messege!!