Im not what you would call you your lonely type or anything like that im more of your successful sports peson. but still there is one girl in my mind i cant get her out of it no matter what i do . i have met her and all but she wont go out with me because of the distance between us which is only like an hour . she sez that she likes me and all . but knowing that its never going to happen between us is slowly but surely killing me . iv just lost the will to live and dont no what to do …………..
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have a look at the terrible things others have been going through and you are gonna thank god that convincing a girl to go out with you is the problem u wanna kill yourself for!!
tired_wanderer, think about Haiti (for example), do any of us have right to rant here about how unhappy we are?
And to Downbeat, what if you’d tell the girl you’d do everything you can to diminish the distance between you two, you’d drive to her place or so that she realizes the distance isn’t so bad after all. Try to cope, you are still young 🙂
DOWNBEAT,
No problems are greater than others, and all feelings of desperation, and sadness weigh on us all the same. I, myself, have been trying very hard to bring someone back in my life. I can’t promise you a bright ending, and I can’t provide you a solution, but I can tell you to keep trying. If a love, so important as it is, is what has got you down, then let it bring you up. If it can’t get worse, it has to get better right man? Keep trying. Show her all the beautiful gifts you have, and eventually you will succeede. Life is a series of lessons we all learn in various weighs. Maybe examine what you can learn from this distance, from this experience. I would definitely not recommend killing yourself, if you do, you’d never be with your love!! All your effort would have amounted to naught. Come on man, go one more round. Keep trying. Just tell her you love her, be there for her, and hopefully she’ll see you for the great man you are, and hopefully at some point down the line, all will be right as rain. I hope I have been of some comfort.
In hope.
Vincent