i am a 23 year old guy and my girlfriend just broke up with me after 4 years. i moved here in ’06 with her, leaving all my friends and family behind. the past 2 weeks, she has left me at home…wont come home or even answer my calls. i havent eaten in the last 3 days and ive been throwing up the water i drink and almost passed out twice. i just need a little advice on this because im all alone here and i have no friends to talk to this about.
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Please don’t do horrible things to yourself over someone, they don’t deserve that kind of respect… ok that sounded horrible. Think why are you still stuck on her: is it because of how long you’ve been together, she was attractive, she was a good person or was it because of the way she made you feel.
First thing you should do is eat something and move in with some family and let them know your in a bad way and you need to recuperate. I really suck at this kind of advice but the best phrase I can think of is: wounds take time to heal, some leave scars but they do heal.
eat, reconnect with your friends, pull yourself together as much as you can. this will make you feel better, trust me.
and besides, if she decides to go home, for any time at all, you dont want her to catch you in your current situation: starving and desperate. good luck.