Do we medicate the “unhappy” person with the goal of making them feel less unhappy, or treat the root cause of the unhappiness? Such as the partner who persistantly lets everything go to SHIT??? So maybe I don’t “care” as much due to the drugs, but the underlying problems are still there. My wife is lazy and has no interetest in me – she is intrerested in her DOG! The ***** (the dog) has taken over the house and pisses/shits whereever she likes. THAT IS NOT RIGHT!!!!! I really hope ANYONE with similar experience can help me through this.