I just want to tell my story, I don’t care if it never gets published, but I think it will, it’s the suicide press, no kids stuff here.
I guess it started about nine or ten months ago, I was on my first date, when he kissed me. Then I started to get all these horrible flashbacks. It was like being in a horror movie or a thriller. I ran out the cinema’s and I couldn’t go back in. Later, bit by bit, I started to get my memory back. Every time I did, it was like little glass shards poking into my brain. I remembered once when I was six or seven or maybe younger and one of my parents friends was drying me off with a towel. He then let his hand slip and I felt this burning pain and then I felt so much shame. Then, when I was older this kid led me to a back area or a back fence and I remember the burning pain their too but this time it was bigger.
A couple of years ago, I was sitting in this christmas party and this older guy, maybe thirty to my twelve, started to touch me. This time it was just around my chest area, I wanted to scream or something but I couldn’t, I couldn’t fight back either. I hate myself, sometimes I want to grab a carving knife and cut myself open. It feels like it was my fault, they were so much stronger but I could’ve done something else, I could’ve screamed louder I could’ve kicked harder I could have done something to make it stop but it didn’t.
So I guess it is true, cry until you’ve got nothing wet, scream until your lungs burst, pray to whatever God you believe in and it wont do a goddamn thing. I keep regressing, I’m living my life in this bubble, I act happy at school but anything can set me off. I don’t like discussing my problems, its not something someone signs up for, so that’s why I’m doing this. Maybe if someone listen, if someone knows why I’m not myself then I can get better. If I can’t, I’m not sure what I’ll do.
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Listen, All of those men if you can call them men are a bunch of sad, lonely losers and they are horrible people. I know they are horrible memories I really do but talking to people or just a person can really help, I used to think that I couldn’t tell anyone aswell until I decided to tell one of my friends about it. She really has supported and helped me through my tough times. You just need to find someone to help you through yours.
This is deep. My heart goes out to you. I don’t have much experience with dilemas of this magnitude, but I peer mediate at my school. If no one else seems to, I love you, respect you, and forgive you for all you may or may not have done. I love all people despite their flaws and past traumas.
You must remember that you are important and that ending it all would only waste the potential to help others. Its ultimately your choice although hope you don’t.
i suspect you are the victim of child abuse.
my advice to you will be tell it to someone with a authority.
Talk to someone u trust. You can write, I will listen, be supportive. I am sorry ths happened to you.