Right now, I’m about 40%…yea 40% certain that I want to just end it all. Not be apart of the world that drove me to cry because I’m not good enough, that turned close friends against me, that made my parents constantly push me to be the best, that drove me to strive to be this person that doesn’t exist in which I have to constantly put work and school before my boyfriend and friends, wait never mind the friends part… I don’t have any. I guess even if I did do something as stupid as to end my life I can honestly tell you no one would miss me. And I think that’s almost the sadder part then ending my life.. Is that no one would care. Everyone thinks I’m a ***** and I’m mean. But I’m not. I just choose not to let people in because well, well becaues, people always leave, and it’d be so much easier for me to just go to sleep and let that be the last time. It’d be so much easier for people to get through the day without me. To not have to deal with my criticism, or my “attitude”, or my negative energy. Whatever it is. But if i did end my suffering… what would I leave behind? Or who? I guess the only true people still close to me would be family..and my boyfriend. This would hurt him the most.. and I can’t live with knowing this would kill him for the rest of his life. Wow, ha. That’s a bad choice of words. But I know in whats left of my heart, is that if I didn’t come back to him, it’d break him. End him. What do I do?
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Despite what you say about yourself, you still know deep down that if you ended your life, your boyfriend and your family would be devastated. I believe that is reason enough not to go through with it. If anything, asking them for support now would, I feel, help you immensely. And you said it yourself, you’re about 40% sure you want to end your life. If that’s the case, you’re still holding on because you DON’T want to do it.
Everyone is different (I know, cliched but it’s true). I personally feel more comfortable being around people who are more critical and skeptical about things rather than taking everything for what it’s worth. Having negative energy doesn’t mean you’re an unlikeable person. For every 1 decent person you meet in this world, there are millions of people who will make you feel like you’re worthless.
So what do you do? The decision is ultimately yours. If you know that leaving this world will break his heart, then you have to decide what outweighs what. However, you have him and your family. Assuming they truly care for you, your boyfriend and your family will support you as long as you talk to them. I hope that helps.