I’m new here, and still not sure why I’m posting. I can’t leave a tell-all type of suicide note in case I survive, and I have no one to talk to. I have always been a loner – everyone thought I had Asperger’s syndrome when I was a kid because I would run and hide under my bed if I had to meet new people. I guess that was the first red flag. I spent my teen years in lockdowns in Utah away from family and normal life. I never had what it took to get through school or hold down a job. Objectively, my life isn’t terrible, but it’s just too much for me. There are little things that make it unbearable, like having to think of myself as a man who has had an abortion, is stuck in a women’s college, and will probably be called “she” at his funeral. Life just feels like one long crazy speed binge, and I can’t wait to go to sleep. Although I’m perfectly capable of offing myself without help, I regret that I have to die alone. All I want is to have someone to say goodbye to, not even a suicide pact (although I’d take that too – hit me up if you’re in massachusetts). I realize after talking to a close friend that people actually will miss me, but that isn’t enough to stop me. I’m beginning to think I’ve lost touch with reality, because when people claim to be “loving” me I perceive it as some form of condescension, or think they’re out to get me. Why should I hang around this dump for people who would have left me to rot if there was no risk of anyone pointing fingers after my death? I’ll be gassing myself in a closet sealed off with duct tape because I have no other option. People might think that telling me to “hang in there” will help somehow, but that just results in a more unpleasant death. For everyone. I have to be scared and alone when I die (scared of surviving, not dying) and someone else has to deal with being traumatized by a decaying corpse.
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hear you on the “crazy binge” part. I find it hard to hold down a job. Funny how it seems how some people can just la-dee-da their way through life…and others its a fight to a finish. I can’t stop you from killing yourself, and I know you’re hurting (hell, i might just off myself too if i continue on this mental breakdown) but I hope that you don’t kill yourself. Even if you feel like a massive fuck-up, there are strengths and weaknesses to everybody. And nobody said that life was going to be easy. Gassing yourself in a closet…haven’t thought of that. For me it’s the old belt / choking way to go. But once again please don’t kill yourself. ow fuck i think i popped my shoulder holy crap it hurts…
Do not do it. I want to help you.. I am just a stranger to you but pleas talk to me.
Hey. Don’t be ashamed that you are hurting. I don’t completely understand everything you are going through.. and you are so right, people will disappoint because they are limited. And too many are selfish. But you know what? God will never let you down. He is not capable of limits. He knows all and if you would just seek Him and accept Jesus Christ as your Savior – from your sins as well as scars – He can start to heal you. In Christ, everything holds together. Get to know that truth and love. There is love that NEVER fails. Have you heard of the band Flyleaf? Did you know that Lacey is a Christian with a history of suicidal tendencies too? Try listening to her story:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Hq2xlaszLI
“For he has not despised or disdained the suffering of the afflicted one;he has not hidden his face from him but has listened to his cry for help.” (Psalm 22:24)
It’s funny they misdiagnosed me with asperger’s sydnrome too, i actually had ptsd, anyways i had been thru alot of mental hospitals and had alot of trouble with authority… anyways you were talking about ways to die and i am interested in a painless way also, just wondering how you go about getting some sort of gas to kill yourself with? would you be able to order it online?
the best way, IMO, is helium with a bag over your head… I tried it a couple times and it doesn’t hurt, but I wasn’t sedated so I was aware of the twitching/jerking and feeling like I was falling… If you can keep the bag on your head, it should work. helium can be ordered online, not sure about other inert gases