Many people can’t give enough excuse superficially for themselves to leave someone, and while they don’t have the heart or capability to mend the relationship, in order not to be blamed as the cruel one to propose a break-up, they choose to open themselves to chances (or to flirt, or to end, or to die).
If any new fish got reeled in, then the excuse would be, not me initiating just me being approached.
And it’s just YOU letting me to fall in those openings of opportunities.
So who’s to blame ?
Everyone. And also not anyone.
It’s a relationship not handling well by both parties or it’s just a phase of life experienced.
The common mistakes are :
Falling in a relationship without risks calculated.
Or even fall in with the wrong one and deceive himself/herself that love will fix everything.
When oneday you learn that the love you give out to your entrusted, or to your family, or to your own children, and the reciprocation from others back is just zero, or even side-dished with hate, will you realize the concept of love you’ve been adopting is wrong.
Love is a ray you emit, you can’t expect its return.
If love coming from others, is just a bonus for you.
You charge your own machine of love !
The generator from others onto you is just partying at times.
So don’t ever be selfish to possess others’ generator.
It’s your own machine needed to be enhanced !
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Where can I find the new update for LovingUrself.exe ? I assume you’re revolved yourself around self-love?
I don’t think anyone can deny that it takes “two” for a relationship to work.
I see what you’re getting at, somewhat..Just because you love, you’re not supposed to expect it back, it’s just an extra feature.
If I misinterpreted wrong, correct me.
GoingUp2Down,
You asked me for “LovingUrself.exe” ?
I don’t have your own conclusive “LovingUrself.exe”.
And I’m not a virgin like you said you are.
And I won’t demean “Violet” of losing virginity by assuming yourself noble of being a virgin of high morality.
And I won’t demean “brain dysfunction” of losing virginity to a prostitute by saying “I’m gonna lose it to some girl I care a lot for who is also a virgin like me!†while “brain dysfunction” is now desperately on the street without a home to go back to, and without friends, and without money and have to withstand your uncaring words.
You quoted your belief “Not a slave to a God that doesn’t exist and I’m not a slave to a world that doesn’t give a fuck.â€
And I have to admit that you are doing a fine job accordingly.
You always say “I don’t judge or try to criticize the decisions people make”, and while saying those in order to correct “LindseyDawn”.
And what about also the “LovingUrself.exe” you invented against me.
As a courtesy to answer your question,
“I don’t think anyone can deny that it takes “two†for a relationship to work.”
Your limiting the quantity given to a logical relationship is illogical.
It can be one to many, or even nil that you can see. It can be people, thing, or imaginary.
You have the right to say what you believe and also that right of response is reserved by the ones you speak to.
But freedom of speech doesn’t mean freedom to come close face to face, eye to eye to someone and drivel.
Something I saw on the internet, I think it’s worthwhile to be translated for you….
God asked, “Child, why crying ?”
Child replied, “I’m out of love !”
God asked, “Do you love him ?”
Child said, “Yes, very much !!”
God then asked, “So, does he love you ??”
Child said, “He did ! but…not now !!”
God then said, “Well, should he be the one instead to cry, since he already lost someone that truly loves him !!”
“And you, my child, you have only lost someone who doesn’t even love you !!”