…because of one teacher. My Finnish teacher. (I am a Finn so it’s not a subject I can quit, and we have a lot of courses of Finnish.) I want to cut deep, deep cuts and were a short sleeved shirt so she can see that it is real. I want to kill myself in a rough way so she knew that it was real.
And she could think herself every night all the times she bursted to laugh at me in front of the class. So she could think all the times she denyed my opinions. She could think all the times she blamed me of cutting school for being in therapy. She could realize that maybe I really was going through hard times and really needed those therapy sessions.
That maybe my absences with reason “attack of anxiety” weren’t made up.
In Finland the highest possible grade is 10, and my mean of report was 9,5 so what the hell would I be for in gymnasium and cutting lessons? How dares she blame me of cutting lessons with me doing so much for getting those grades? How dares she blame me of cutting lessons for being in therapy?
How can she fail my course with well done exams because of cut lessons? I WAS ON THERAPIST.
I just want to slice my wrists open so she could see that I do not cut lessons. So she could see that I am a good, conscientious student. I want to attempt suicide and do it in a rough, filthy way so she knew that I was a good student.
I can’t manage with this teacher. My gymnasium is so tiny that we’ve got only one teacher for Finnish so I can’t swap the teacher. I think I will quit the fucking school if she won’t believe after seeing my old scars and new wounds.
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that teacher sounds like a *****
sorry
I understand how you feel about having your teacher laugh at you infront of the class. I remember back when my SA (social anxiety) was so bad to the point that my voice would shake whenever I read aloud infront of the class, my substitute teacher stared at me the entire time I read from the book like “WTF is wrong with you???”. It made me feel really bad for a long time. So I get that, but really. Fuck her. She isn’t worth it.
um. arent you letting her win if you kill yourself? i understand that you want to prove your point and that she is a total *****, but you are just being putty in her hands if you do that. if she has a problem, tell your parents. if that doesnt work, then spite her. smile when she messes with you and be polite. and get real good grades. and basically if she talks about cutting say if i did, then why are my grades so high? anywayz i am sorry your teach is a ***** but dnt destroy urself for her. shes a total *****. so why put thought to her?
Damn i so fucking agree zdeathchanz. yes dont let her win. i am a cutter so i tollaly know that feeling of of wanting to do it because of her. but let me tell you dont cut over anyone but yourself. from the start i told my self i was not going to cut over a boy. and well i did keep that promise i did cut over things my sisters did and others. but i had wish i didnt because i know realize that it was stupid to do it over something they did. if i did something bad or stupid and it made me feel really bad thin ya i would cut and now that is like the only reason why i do it now. like today i am having a really bad day i have been really pisses off today and well i cant control what the idiots did today so whats the point in lettin them win. and i just fall more in there trap. so that is why i am telling you dont do it because of a ***** that will not be much longer in your life. o and i do like his advice very much
please dont, you will be hurting so many many people if you do this, ur letting her win, love your life and that is what will bring her down, if u need to talk, ever, im here 🙂
Anae,
I was in a skiing trip in Austria, and met a one and only Finnish girl.
Me and my skiing buddy an English boy were all drooling upon talking to her.
She was so sweet, so soft, so pretty, so nice, although her English so poor, still fun talking in the lounge with her for 20 minutes, until her older brother came along like an eagle, and hurried and insisting her back to her room upstairs.
And that has been an unforgettable experience.
Finland is so remote, but rather a kind of mystery to me.
It’s at the farthest north of Europe.
Even the huge humpbacks travel there, fascinating, have you seen one with their swimming backstroke like a baby waving as if hello with their long fins like hands ?
Aren’t there saunas almost in every house ?
Why don’t you take it as a therapy for yourself ?
Especially it’s so cold now, must be all covering in snow.
The Finns might have been keeping good blood circulation with their hot sauna and their plunging into cold water to keep their heart strong and mind fresh.
The gymnasium you talked about, is it a school teaching hall ?
Or is that a very small school nearby a small village in which you’re living ?
Your teacher was mad of you not attending class, may be just the reason of her self-esteem.
Some teachers don’t care you’re bright or scoring high, as long as you attend her class, some’ll even give you open-book test or giveaway marks, to prove their effective teaching results.
The attendance might just be good enough of showing respect to her assumed valuable teachings.
Sometimes standing in her shoes to see what she wants is a must, and see if you are up to compensate of what she asks for, problems might then be solved.
The tactics to deal with a stubborn teacher sometimes is to soften her down with praise and with your lady-like plead, enough to let her fly with her featherly wings with boosting on her self-esteem.
Just a matter of treating her right and in return she treats you right. A win-win situation.
It’s like sharing your joy by saying hello to a total stranger, if she is decent enough she’ll respond, and if not, you’re still fine, she stays her way, and you go your own way.
Although some are prejudice, and jealous of the bright, then you should put your parents up front to complain.
However parents may be stupid enough even stupefying their children, and you should brace yourself to stand up to your rights speak up and fight for it.
Be the one that righteously stand with pride is always better than being an ostrich buried in sand.
The last resort. Complain to the board of education, that this teacher, of her words and behavior all those against you, was the direct cause to your depression, your self-harming, resulting missing classes.
(And of course, evidences of materials, witnesses, and other probable victims though are required to suffice)
i agree with zdeathchanz. hang in there, you wont have to deal with this asshole forever.