I am that girl who has everything a good paying job and a fairly nice family and also the world’s best boyfriend. But I really want out. My boyfriend has given up everythign for me…he quit his job so that we could live in the same city. His family is against him and he still loves me so much. He has now been jobless for 3 years after the move and all the while I have been working. The guilt is killing me…I wish I could make him happy do somethig for him but nothign is workign out. I know I cannot just break up with him so that he can go back to his family and start afresh, I cannot bear to break up. But I think I am jinxed it is because of me that he is finding no luck. I am like the bad omen in his life. The only way to fix this is for me to die..then he will get another chance to live life and be happy which he deserves so much. I know I will kill myself one day…just trying to figure out how and when….I just want him to be happy again…
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If he loves you so much, what do you think killing yourself would achieve? You can’t predict that his life would get better, he might go into a realm that is a danger to himself, your death would be like rolling dice 🙁
Talk with him, openly, don’t kill yourself because you think it would set him free as I’m sure that would horrify him no end and haunt him for the rest of his life. If you’re going to suicide for peats sake do it because your life itself is intolerable, painful and not worth living anymore. But don’t do it over another person who loves you out of some misguided sense of self sacrifice, I mean dealing with the suicide of a loved one is hard enough for people to cope with without them knowing they were the cause of that suicide. Trust me that’s sentencing them to a lifetime of guilt, do you want that!? Take care…
I am sympathetic, I truly am, but that’s just how I see it…
You’ve got what so many people don’t have, someone who’s given up everything to be with you out of shared love. Don’t throw it away…
thanks Shellly and Tiredmesh. I totally get wat you say…but I dont want to him to continue this way he dosent tell me but when i put myself in his shoes I feel so guilty to be alive…how would you feel to be jobless for 3 years without hope of a future without money… At first thought it sounds like I should be the happiest gal living who has everything a girl dreams of but what eats me from inside is the guilt, the fear of not living upto his expectations. If I could change one thing now, i want to switch places with him I want to be a devoted and loving partner to him…but the next best thing I can do is this..
BTW, this site helps me a lot…my decsion to end my life is something I may not act upon immediately I have bucket list 😉 but I can see clearly how I will die …no other way but this…
Then talk with him, sooner rather than later, find a way to solve the fix that you’re both in. And yes because of severe emotional problems I’ve been unemployed for years and years, so I do know how hard it is…