You are told your entire life, all the research says “don’t go running after him, leave him alone, don’t talk to him..he will come back”…but he doesn’t. He stays gone. while you are left wondering if you should have chased him.
You’re told to not be the crazy ex, not to bash him, or spread your business to everyone…everyone forgets, they love him and support all of his new relationships…you’re left wondering if you did the right thing.
You’re encouraged “don’t worry, you will find someone new! He’s out there. You will forget all about that loser!”… he’s dated other girls and is now with a girl you grew up with…and you’re alone. haven’t been on one date( not for lack of trying) since him.
There are books and advice all about how to deal with breakups…but i haven’t found one about how to deal with losing the perfect guy because he didn’t want you anymore…you were too focused on being mature to just have fun.
No one tells you about the constant ache.
No one tells you about how you can be 110% sure he’s the one, and then loose him.