Give everything you have. Share your soul, your possessions, your heart and your feelings.But remember that kindness attracts the weak.
Don’t say anything that weak people can’t handle. Weak people are just that; weak. You cannot think aloud among the weak. You cannot really be “human” among the weak. Because they are weak….
“Weak” is not a negative term.* One can be physically weak without invoking the disdain of others. It should be no different in reference to emotional weakness.
Don’t decide to be kind to the weak and then expect them to be strong. If you cannot monitor and control the expression of your thoughts, worries and observations, you should not be among the weak. In other words, you cannot be weak among the weak.
But you really cannot be weak among the strong because you are weak. Thus, the true meaning of loneliness. Loneliness is the only real pain. Keep the pain to yourself, you are weak.
*weak  (w
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when you care for other people, despite all your difficulties,
when you still able to love and push through, despite all your life’s unfortunate circumstances,
and when you still practice the emotions of LOVE, when the whole world and majority of society operates in FEAR, envy, hatred, and lying,
that is being strong.
not weak.
because not many people are able to do that.
it’s easy to hate your enemy. it’s easy to find bad things in a person.
but it’s much harder to love your enemy, and to find good things in your fellow humans and this world.
Thank you niki, that helps. I should tell you that this is a note I wrote to myself after I had a discussion with my husband. I have done many things (certainly not everything) to help him and his teenage kids but I was thoroughly dressed down for saying something that was admittedly insensitive. I feel like I just can’t win unless I resign myself to a permanent state of loneliness.
I don’t believe that people can be “weak” or “strong.” They’re people and everyone has moments of weakness and strength. Both can seem prolonged and both can be very fleeting. So rather than defining yourself, define the moment and think about how to change it if you weren’t satisfied.
Some teen’s seem weak goin to kill them self’s over a faild relationship or trouble with friend’s or family or school but that’s because they don’t have life experince yet or control. Dose kindness attracts the week maybe. Dose Suicide buy definition make you weak.
Thank you for your comments. It is interesting to see how others interpret your words. My husband and his children suffer from post traumatic stress as they lived with a very abusive and unstable woman for years. I knew what they had been through and believed that being kind to them and offering them comfort and safety would “cure” them. When I wrote this to myself last night, I was telling myself that I was naive to think this way and that I should expect these bruised people to be easily injured.
The reason I posted this on this board was to express the degree of my loneliness. I cannot express my insecurities because my husband can’t cope with them. I cannot seek someone stronger than myself with which to share my insecurities because I cannot handle some of the responses I could get from them as I too am weak. So here I am….desperately and painfully lonely.
You seem to intelligent maybe you have to stop bein good harted. If you painfully lonely your got to walk. Your husdand and his children stop takin advantage of you . His chidren not your’s. I say move on
You seem to intelligent maybe you have to stop bein good harted. If you painfully lonely your got to walk. Your husdand and his children stop takin advantage of you . His chidren not your’s. I say move on get out