It hurts my heart to read the degree of pain and torment of so many of these posts. I think maybe a little perspective might be the medicine you seek. There is a massive world out there and not everyone it is horrible. There are wonderful people all over this planet and not everyone is out to hurt.
The truth is people can and will believe what they want to. And its theyâ€™re right. Most of us are just trying to make it through this journey the best way we know how. It doesnâ€™t matter what they believe and its kind of a scape-goat to say that youâ€™re â€˜leavingâ€™ because people have hurt you or you don’t like what they believe in. Thereâ€™s no need to change these people. its up to you to define whats right in your world.
My husbandâ€™s father killed himself when he was 45. My husband was tweny one. I canâ€™t tell you what happens after you die -not with any certainty anyway- but I can sure tell you whatâ€™s left behind when you kill yourself. It devestated the family. It devestated his children and his wife and his parents. It broke things in them that will never heal and i hate him for what it did to my husband. The damage that is left behind is colossal.
There are alot of angry people on this board. There are alot of angry posters here who feel they have been wronged in some way, yet they seem to pursue the very people who make them angry. Situations can’t change unless you change them. period.
There are children sitting burn units right now that need volunteers to read to them. There are kids dying of cancer that would LOVE a toy or a video-game after a chemo-treatment, or even to see someone else’s face besides a nurse or a doctor. They have nothing but hope because thereâ€™s nothing else â€˜toâ€™ have. Kids are being kidnapped in thailand and forced into sex-slavery. A woman is being beaten by her husband somewhere in the world right now, and a man just lost his job and doesnâ€™t know how heâ€™ll feed his family as I type this.
i just wonder if any of you have thought about donating your time to a cause that might need your help. Something bigger than you, something bigger than your anger and despair. Its a big world out there and their are many, many ideas floating in it. Donâ€™t make â€˜yourâ€™ world too small. Get out and really see whatâ€™s going on. And Get involved. It just might save your life.