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D, shame and judgment are man made constructs that are a virus in the world. If everyone knew who they really were and where they came from, we wouldn’t have any uncertainty, and all the aspects of fear would not motivate us, but the opposite. Should you choose to go, do it out of love for yourself and no one can make that decision but you. Anything negative anyone has to say about is about THEIR fear…..however I do believe being real and honest is the best policy. You have a wife…be open. Not dealing with reality on it’s terms hurts people even more despite our own personal life dilemmas.

FYI, a lot of people have been mysteriously losing interest, concentration, focus, motivation and passion in their lives. The energy on this planet is changing and you are experiencing the energetic shift that has been taking the earth by storm. Unless you know of another reason, seek it out, otherwise see if what I wrote resonates with you. Many people are experiencing challenges of all sorts, and our own mental efforts don’t seem to make a dent and improve our situation. Just do your best and don’t freak out about things. I’m 40 and have been feeling this for about 7 years. Research and get some information. Good luck. Cheers!