My best friend is a lesbian and she is going to have sex with my other friend, her girlfriend sense around 3 days ago, and I had gotten invited to go. To have sex with them or whatever. I said no of course but she keep on pushing me to go with them and have sex too. Or to at least sit there and watch out for a parent to come in. My best friend wanted to have sex with me.. that’s what it seems like. I don’t know if she thinks I’m being left out or does she like me too? I need new friends I think. I need a new everything it seems.
I said no of course to the invite and plan on never having sex before marriage.
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Hello
You start with the sentence “My best friend is A lesbian” as if being that were some kind of title or entity. You would not say for example, my best friend is A schizophrenic or my best friend is A paranoid or is A depressed. Rather you would say, my friend suffers from schizophrenia, or paranoia, which are mental illnesses which can be or not more or less temporary. Lesbianism and homosexuality are also the product of emotional wounds, some times of straightforward origins like when parents abuse their children generating tremendous disruption in the mind of a child which sometimes last forever, sometimes of more complicated origins. There are good books on it “Coming out straight” by Richard Cohen, a person who in the past suffered from homosexuality as he was abused when he was 5.
Then we have a corrupt system of democracy where it is all about giving minorities whatever they want in order to buy them off for the next election, that is why they give for free everything to blacks for example on the excuse of Affirmative Action, it is a great electoral business. Homosexuals spend their lives lobbying and dragging the rest of the world to their “cause”, and the rubbish Mainstream Media collaborates in creating the Big Lie, so that the social mass, the frail minds are lied to, manipulated and directed towards a way of thinking.
All lesbians and homosexuals are always trying to drag others into their world. You would be kidding yourself if you think that they just want to be “themselves”. They hate heterosexuals because normal people evidence their problems, therefore everybody must be like them. All homosexuals suffer from emotional wounds which led to their deviation of sexual orientation. Amongst them, one part realizes there is something not functioning, seek help and do their best. Other fraction knows there is something wrong in them but instead of trying to make the efforts to improve themselves seeking help, they are not up to it. They want everybody to be like them. In psychiatry this is called “Negative Attribution”, you pretend to nullify your problem by dragging the rest of the world to it.
And now we have a little problem because you are young, are insecure and are a target for them. You still dont have a solid personality and your self esteem depends of how well you get along with the ones around you. By the same token, if you had ended up with drug addicts, then the issue would be for you to also participate in order not to be outdone. Obviously you realise, I hope, that in no bloody way are you going to let yourself be dragged neither to homosexuality nor to drugs. You are an entire beautiful entity, with personality, rights, and autonomy and you can and you should and you must find those real good friends who are fine people, just like you. In one word, send them to hell, and find yourself good healthy people.
There will be many who will hate what I say and will try to convince you that you should mix with them etc. They are the Moral Relativist, they are the ones responsible for the break up of society, for splitted up families, abortions, Mourning After Pillock and all that rubbish. You have been extremely lucky that someone with my outstanding education, life background experience has given you an advice. Most people in society are extremely vulgar and the majority of them are slightly above the level of cattle, basically they chew the product of their instincts and populate our streets with their vulgarity. They hate people like me because we represent a kind of life that is demanding and they dont like any kind of efforts. We dont beat our wives, we dont cheat our wives, we work to stick our families together, we dont abuse our children, we dont let down our friends, we proud honesty, sincerity, all those kinds of things which make the person more valuable.
You would think, I am a religious phreak. Actually I have not mentioned anything of the sort. I am not as I do not practice any religion. My values are the product of an honest relationship with what I know is right in life.
best regards
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If you don’t want sex before marriage they have to respect that.. Tell them that… I don’t know them so I wouldn’t know how you should approach them.
Lesbin Love is a wonderfull thing you should embrace it embark on your journey video each other.
Get your self a new group of friend’s. Dont get youself forced in to that
Good decision, you should never let peer pressure make you choose something that you’re likely to regret. You’re friend needs to learn to respect your decisions more.