I’m 19. A college student at the engineering department.I thought that if i could make it and pass to my college this would make me get rid of depression, fake and painful friendships, broken parent relationships and a life full of misery, full of wretchedness. Apparently non of these are true. My life is falling apart while it seems that noone cares about me.I’m locked in my house almost everyday doing nothing, while l’m living parasitic.The phone almost never rings and when it does it is probably my family for the typical stuff. Yes, i tried therapy and apparently it did me no good. Some time has passed and the idea of death seems so sweet to me. I dont know what to believe but most likely the next life will definitely be better than the current one. I can’t accuse myself of not trying to escape this swamp in which im going under. I have been always giving everything i could to my relationships either that was with a girl or a friend.What i got in exchange was negligence. I just feel that i can’t help myself anymore… I’ve done what i could..I really don’t want to give up but i’m just sinking deeper and deeper. Maybe im writing here to make the final step. Maybe i just needed 2 reconsider my whole life and how devastated it is to make me take the decision to end my life. Sometimes i just consider that while i’m whining about this terrible things are happening around the world but still my problem seems the most important to me. My face is full of tears which means that another psychological breakdown aproaches. I feel weak and embarassed. How i let myself end up like this? It doesn’t matter anymore and this can’t change
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first off, i’m going 2 hug u. so *hug* i don’t know if that helps any, but i find hugs to be comforting… if your giving life your all and your not pleased with the results that’s fine, many aren’t… fake friends…ditch them. get real ones. parent trouble? talk to me, i’ll do anything i can to help, and i understand. depression, i understand, if you need anything, any way i can help just tell me.
if you feel you can’t help yourself anymore… let us help you… let me help carry you on when your too tired to continue. ๐ if you need to talk, i’m an ear to listen. if you need a hug, mine are warm and full of care…
if you’re going to end your life…i understand that feeling, and i can’t stop you if you’re determined, but i will be here if you want to discuss this and i will cry when your gone…
“Sometimes i just consider that while iรขโฌโขm whining about this terrible things are happening around the world but still my problem seems the most important to me.” <– waht u said. your not whining, your seeking help, and the world seeks help too. it's ok to think of yourself when its your life your talking about! what happens in the world we have so little impact on, but this is YOUR life. if you need to "whine" about it, then do so. i'll be here for you if you want.
and if your crying….do you need a shoulder? i've got two ๐
if u feel it is the right thing to do, then do it, go right ahead and let noone talk it out of you. YOu know what to do.
rocky90 i’ve wrote here because i’m in need of consolation and help.I wont even bother writing something big about what u said.. I will even wish you that in a similar situation noone answers you with what you just answered me