DONT DO IT! I would be a complete hypocrite if I said don’t kill yourself because I plan to kill myself too, but please do not cut yourself, it is one of the worst methods out there. You will be in so much pain and if you fail you could fuck up your life for good. And if you don’t know what you’re doing you will probably fail.
It’s been hell, I’m trying to get the thoughts out of my head (promised maeliin) but I am really can’t deal with. It looks like it could help me get through the day.
Reading, going for a walk, hitting a pillow? Anything but cutting, it’s really not something you want to start. Then theres hiding all the scars. Please try some thing else
wow, I logged in on time. Don’t cut yourself. Seriously. It’s not something you should start or do. No one should cut themselves. I mean, it does help some people to calm down and relax, but there are other ways to do that too. You shouldn’t start it..
I’m not recommending it, I’m becomeing addicted. |:
but, if it is the last option? (most people I know say they wouldn’t ave survived without it, but they hate the scars) DON’T cut on the wrists, thighs, thighs thighs thighs. so easy to hide, and unless you wear skirts that barely cover your ass, no-one’ll know. :3
shoulders? alright, kinda easy to hide, but I honestly wish I started on my thighs, my sleeve keeps going up on my t-shirt and it’s annoying me.
wrists? almost impossible to hide in the summer without getting heat stroke, you may no be allowed to wear hoodies in school, or arm warmers/gloves etc. so your basically fucked.
ankles? okay to hide, but it’s easy to get infected.
chest? jeez, easily noticeable.
but honestly, the scars are the worst thing, but it helps. I won’t lie.do it where only the people you trust the most will be able to see.
I’m not saying do it, but I’m also not completely forbiding you from doing it, as that would be complete hypocrisy. |: it’s like saying. ‘yeah, I can eat this cake, but you can’t because it’s bad for you.’
just, try not to do it everyday, it’s hard to stop. only do it if you really , really need to.
i don’t remember who it was but someone on this site told me to use like a needle or something to just prick my finger, it’ll bleed faster and won’t scar, maybe that could help for now so you don’t cut
Sorry for delay I’m using my phone in school, afterschool activity. I haven’t cut yet (was planning to when I get home but I’ll hold off on it for now.
Just got back
*hug maeliin
🙁 I don’t know what the hell is wrong with me, i know the consequences yet for a while i was longing for a knife or something to make this go away, i don’t even know what i’m trying to get rid off… wow how pathetic of me.
you’re not pathetic I cut, don’t really understand why, but I do and it doesn’t really do much when I think about it but I still do it. At least you had the sense to come here and talk about it rather than just act on impulse which is more than i can say for myself
nothing is wrong with you for thinking of that, think it all you want just don’t let it get you down more and don’t act on it… instead of a knife maybe find something else that would bring you the same feeling cutting would… cuddle with a puppy or something…anything but self harm..
oh just reread it, ya i didn’t know what to do, i was just hoping for some details i couldn’t find on google (the needle on thumbs doesn’t sound bad) but the help is better and appreciated.
@smiling… ok if not a puppy then… a stuffed animal? i can let you have one of mine if you’d like *shows you a large selection of favorite softest stuffed animals* :3 just choose ^^
🙁 My mom was yelling again at me about all the stuff i can never be. Usuallly i can blow it off but something got to me today. Don’t know what it was but i just started thinking about trying to relax but i couldn’t so i started thinking about cutting and giving it a shot. Worst idea ever. Good thing i didn’t try.
(:> yea i’m glad you didn’t try…sry your mom yelled at you D: i think you will b great at whatever you want to do… *hugs* ^^ you can be/do whatever you want to! you are in control!
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if you know nothing about cutting or slashing or its pros and cons (specially if you fail) , then dont do it.
Hey there,
Why do you want to cut? You don’t want to start that. Its the worst thing i did.
Me 2 , never cutting meself again.
I’m trying, its been about a week since i last did it.
DONT DO IT! I would be a complete hypocrite if I said don’t kill yourself because I plan to kill myself too, but please do not cut yourself, it is one of the worst methods out there. You will be in so much pain and if you fail you could fuck up your life for good. And if you don’t know what you’re doing you will probably fail.
It’s been hell, I’m trying to get the thoughts out of my head (promised maeliin) but I am really can’t deal with. It looks like it could help me get through the day.
@dyster8
I know I can be addicted and infected, but I could just wash them everytime.
Have you tried distracting yourself in any way?
Tried but I can’t listen to my music every minute of my day.
Reading, going for a walk, hitting a pillow? Anything but cutting, it’s really not something you want to start. Then theres hiding all the scars. Please try some thing else
Nothing’s worked…
*hugs*
Can i ask why you think cutting will work for you?
wow, I logged in on time. Don’t cut yourself. Seriously. It’s not something you should start or do. No one should cut themselves. I mean, it does help some people to calm down and relax, but there are other ways to do that too. You shouldn’t start it..
I’m not recommending it, I’m becomeing addicted. |:
but, if it is the last option? (most people I know say they wouldn’t ave survived without it, but they hate the scars) DON’T cut on the wrists, thighs, thighs thighs thighs. so easy to hide, and unless you wear skirts that barely cover your ass, no-one’ll know. :3
shoulders? alright, kinda easy to hide, but I honestly wish I started on my thighs, my sleeve keeps going up on my t-shirt and it’s annoying me.
wrists? almost impossible to hide in the summer without getting heat stroke, you may no be allowed to wear hoodies in school, or arm warmers/gloves etc. so your basically fucked.
ankles? okay to hide, but it’s easy to get infected.
chest? jeez, easily noticeable.
but honestly, the scars are the worst thing, but it helps. I won’t lie.do it where only the people you trust the most will be able to see.
I’ll admit it does help to relax me but it still isn’t some thing i want to see other people start if i can help it. DON’T START.
@3_bringitback
Ya that would be easy to hide scars there.
I’ll keep that in mind everyone.
I’m not saying do it, but I’m also not completely forbiding you from doing it, as that would be complete hypocrisy. |: it’s like saying. ‘yeah, I can eat this cake, but you can’t because it’s bad for you.’
just, try not to do it everyday, it’s hard to stop. only do it if you really , really need to.
Alright thanks guys.
Remember not to go too deep so the cuts won’t scar as bad.
@smiling… what’s wrong, what makes you want to cut…smiling don’t do it…it’ll be the worst mistake of your life…
):> seriously smiling please don’t cut… *is worrying soooo much*
i don’t remember who it was but someone on this site told me to use like a needle or something to just prick my finger, it’ll bleed faster and won’t scar, maybe that could help for now so you don’t cut
Sorry for delay I’m using my phone in school, afterschool activity. I haven’t cut yet (was planning to when I get home but I’ll hold off on it for now.
Phone’s dying, I’ll check back and when I get home (530 or 6).
*hugs smiling* ): please don’t cut at all… *will worry soooo much more about you…*
Just got back
*hug maeliin
🙁 I don’t know what the hell is wrong with me, i know the consequences yet for a while i was longing for a knife or something to make this go away, i don’t even know what i’m trying to get rid off… wow how pathetic of me.
you’re not pathetic I cut, don’t really understand why, but I do and it doesn’t really do much when I think about it but I still do it. At least you had the sense to come here and talk about it rather than just act on impulse which is more than i can say for myself
I haven’t cut yet, i was cursing myself cause i was about to…
I don’t get it. you like the pain?
*hugs smiling* ): i’m glad you haven’t cut yet…
nothing is wrong with you for thinking of that, think it all you want just don’t let it get you down more and don’t act on it… instead of a knife maybe find something else that would bring you the same feeling cutting would… cuddle with a puppy or something…anything but self harm..
oh just reread it, ya i didn’t know what to do, i was just hoping for some details i couldn’t find on google (the needle on thumbs doesn’t sound bad) but the help is better and appreciated.
@maeliin
I don’t have a puppy, but i could always find something else to get by. Maybe they just haven’t worked so far…
@smiling… ok if not a puppy then… a stuffed animal? i can let you have one of mine if you’d like *shows you a large selection of favorite softest stuffed animals* :3 just choose ^^
Can i have the dog stuffed animal to keep me company until i get an actual dog?
^^ sure *passes you the cutest softest doggy* :3
(rl dogs r scary but stuffed animals can’t hurt :D)
Ya stuffed ones can’t hurt, in fact they help *hug dog and maeliin
*hugs smiling* (: i’m glad they help ^^ ): what was so awful that it made you want to cut?
🙁 My mom was yelling again at me about all the stuff i can never be. Usuallly i can blow it off but something got to me today. Don’t know what it was but i just started thinking about trying to relax but i couldn’t so i started thinking about cutting and giving it a shot. Worst idea ever. Good thing i didn’t try.
(:> yea i’m glad you didn’t try…sry your mom yelled at you D: i think you will b great at whatever you want to do… *hugs* ^^ you can be/do whatever you want to! you are in control!
In the end, you’ll be happy you didn’t start cutting. Cutting is an addiction you don’t want to have to deal with on top of everything else.
Just stay strong and try your best not to resort to it.
Thanks maeliin, i really appreciate it 🙂 *hug maeliin
^^