Does any one else sit at work or class and wonder where we went wrong in our lives to end up feeling like this? What bad things have we done for all the shit to occur for us? Or is it simply genetic? Can we blame all our problems on whats happened in our past? Or Is it our fault for not having the strength to take life head on and deal with the consequences?
Is it simply fate?
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I can’t speak for everyone but i believe my problems are all my fault. I can’t deal with life. There’s something about me that makes people hate me even though i try my best. I am the rug, step on me.
Just the way it goes.
I think it’s my past you hear all about for getting the past but you can’t ever forget it it’s what shapes the person you are.
It’s fucking fate, and it sucks, and it’s completely not fair.
It’s probably genetic. It’s a serious illness.
I blame myself for it, I wonder what kind of horrible person I must have been in a past life to have this karma, even though I don’t really believe it— clearly that’s part of the disorder too.
It’s not our fault that we suffer from this, any more than anyone else who has a serious disease.
But one thing we gain from this is that we understand suffering, and so we can be compassionate.
Fate fucked us over, but it doesn’t mean we can’t fight through.
I don’t believe fate has ‘fucked us over’. I believe we’re in charge of our own destiny. If you dislike your personality, change it. It’s as simple as that. The only thing you can control in life is yourself so make yourself the person you want to be. Don’t sit around waiting for someone to do it for you.. it rarely happens.