             i found this site out of curiosity and to be honest… i think its really pathetic that everyone has to post ” their thoughts on suicide” on the web. if you were anything of a civilized human being. ( wich most of you script to be well educated) you would not have found sanction in an internet site. you seem to forget in the nesxt 30, 40 maybe 50+ years most of us will seize to exist.WE ARE NOT MAKING IT OFF THIS PLANET ALIVE. you are so egotistical to beleive that taking your life will gain some form of release that will solve your problems. have some dignity. no one said it was easy, no one said it was going to be a walk in the park.
      you act as if a stillborn salvation would have solved everything. you post on this site as if it was a virtual jesus and you were looking for attention. if you are able to voice your opinion here you have obviously not seen the real world. ive seen children who are paraplegics  smiling ear too ear just happy to be alive from their misfortunes. ive seen grown men who couldnt afford a lavished life style for their children but were happy just to be able to see them every day, too watch them grow older. ive seen misguided masses turn around and become soul leaders of a once condemned agricultural landmark.yet  you sit behind a screen and mask yourself in self-proclaimed disparity.
     look around you. this world if full of people like you. you feel alone, nothing seems to make you happy, everything you do disapoints others? WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD. HAS IT FINALLY SUNK IN!? there is no easy way out. look at this planet and really ask yourself ” no one could possibly know what i am dealing with”. you are all cowards. how dare you say that your life is that much more to bare than the rest of the world. could you take your life if one person ( beit that you know of them or dont) counts on you to be there for them? or would you still be so vein to believe that no one could ever understand your disposition?
       WAKE UP! give yourself the pleasure of finding out what happens further down the tunnel. give that one soul surviving entity the satisfaction in knowing you will be there for them. maybe , just maybe that one person is still waiting on you. but you will never know, will you. your self indulgence is more important. GREED , ATTENTION, MISERY IS A LONELY COMBONATION. GET A GRIP ON YOUR OWN REALITY/ SANITY. you just might find yourself waving back at you.
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Trolling trolls need to read the red print at the top of the page.
@blinded it looks like English is not your native language so I will give you a break on that. But I myself get pissed off when someone tells me what to do and how to feel. When I am depressed, the last thing I want to hear is “think of paraplegics who are happy being alive”. It has nothing to do with how I feel.
If I am depressed it is my business. I would love it if someone were to get in touch with how I feel, to just listen to me, that alone makes me feel better. But if I am told to not be depressed because there are people worse off than I am, then I want to tell that person to get lost.
Yeah really I agree with the above people- leave us alone we are allowed to express what we feel. You are not required to come to this site you know.
1.) obvious troll is obvious
2.) I hope to god I dunno is right and english is NOT your primary language, otherwise you come across as asinine.
3.) The ability for people to handle ANY given situation is unique among the individual. You as a human being have no right to tell others how to feel or act.
4.) have a good day, sorry you feel the need to bash people who are going through tought times to feel better about your life, I wish you peace.
tough* not tought*, sorry for the mispelling, I was in a typing fury.
what gives you the right to judge people when you have no idea what they are going through? I actually feel sorry for you that your life is that bad that you have to go on suicide site and talk shit about people who are vulnerable and going through a hard time.
The person that wrote this is either very smart, or very ignorant. I tend to find the good in people, even if i am fooling myself, or if its not really there. So, i’ll hope that this poster is just really smart and is using reverse thinking to get people to defend themselves as a way to possibly help.
However, bye chance that this poster is ignorant, i would like to make a few comments. First, telling someone like myself that someone else has it worse, doesn’t work. We judge our ups and downs based on what WE experience. Not what others experience. let me try to explain:
Something happened in each of our lives that we consider the “best” or happiest. Something happened in our lives that we consider the “worst” or unhappiest. When a new “best” happens, then we adjust our understanding of “happiest”, when something “worse” happens we adjust our new understand of “unhappy”. Based on this scale and as we experience life, we adjust how we feel compared to our past experiences.
Think of how excited you were to get a candy bar when you were 6, as an adult do you feel the same amount of joy, or have your experiences adjusted your feelings about the importance of candy? Likewise, how upset were you to be yelled at when you were 8, do you still break out in tears and feel as hurt? or have you again adjusted your “hurt” scale?
Lets use this 20 year old woman and her neighbor, also 20, as an example:
If the worst thing a 20 year old woman has ever experienced is to have her barbie doll break, then her heartbreak or hurt is going to be 100% of her known pain. The neighbor lady is also 20, however she has been raped, this is her end of the pain scale, and she hurts 100% of her known pain. They don’t hurt any less, or any more than each other, because they both have had THEIR “worst thing ever” happen to them. We can’t ask the first lady to feel better about her Barbie, because she has never experienced rape, and we can’t ask the raped woman to understand how a Barbie doll can make someone feel the hurt she has. She would find the Barbie doll episode as trivial..TO HER.
The point is, you can tell me all day long that being molested as a small boy isn’t as bad as having my legs cut off, but that doesn’t change the hurt i have from my “worst”. You can tell the man that has his legs cut off that “at least he is alive” but that doesn’t change his worst. The truth is, until we die, as i think that is the ultimate “worst” we each will experience, there will always be someone that has a happier “happy” and a worst “sad” than the next person. This changes nothing as far as how ifeel about MY experiences.
The issue isn’t that we all have bad stuff and how it really compares to everyone else…The issue here is how we deal with our own hurt. Seeking attention? ABSOLUTELY! Seeking empathy and sometimes pity? YEP. Seeking someone to just interact with? WHY NOT! I like to be listened to, i like attention, i like to interact with people that i like. Who doesn’t?
So when you ignorant people come in here and suggest that i am attention seeking, understand..YOU ARE RIGHT! It helps, even if its just for a little while.
When you ignorant people come in here and suggest that we are just trying to find empathy or sometimes even pity, understand…YOU ARE RIGHT! It helps, even if its just for a little while.
When you ignorant people come in here and suggest that we are just “talking to talk” even though no one may even be listening that cares, understand….YOU ARE RIGHT! It helps, even if its just for a little while.
Next time you come here, maybe you should tell us what “your worst” and “your best” is, and perhaps it will help you to, even if its just for a little while.
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you have one hundred percent understood my post. i commend you. even just for a little bit i have taken these peoples minds off of their problems. in no way have i intentionally focused hatred on these people. i would only be subjecting myself to ignorance. i hope that everyone here finds the form of peace they are searching for. but as it stands only they can make the step forward for progress. i hope that you are not going through hardships, seeing is how you are very well intuned with the ploy of this post. i found this site and it saddened me too see people looking for methods to commit suicide. ( as written in other posts) This post was made to do exactly what you thought, for the greater good. look at what has happened here as of now. people have directed their comments towards my post and now they have somone to vent on. i will take the proverbial ” bullet” if it means some one saw the meaning too this post, and are now some what happier knowing that they just had someone/ something to post too. i wish you well, and good job with your analogy on my post, very impressive.
apparently i was wrong about this site wasnt it supposed to help and not full of critics it was supposed to be something other than my life instead its full of all these judging people….
I can’t help it that my brain chemicals make me miserable, I would give anything to actually want to be alive
peoples emotions arent something for you to mess with dickhead. you post could have made somepeople feel like shit.
this site ia for people that don’t have anybody at home to talk to and feel all alone in the world so fuck you and why you even here if you don’t have a problem you don’t belong here with us!!! get a life and stop bringing people down by calling us pathetic ur really a ***** for even voicing ur opinion on here we didnt ask for criticism we ask for help!
Blinded, I am not clear as to the point you are trying to make. Are you saying that you offered yourself up as a distraction ? You second post is not clear, however, assuming that was indeed your intention, why did you write the second post ? Maybe, I am wrong. There are a couple of points that you make in your first that I, for one believe, to be self evident; there is suffering, and great suffering elsewhere, and perhaps it seems that such invalidates the suffering of others, perhaps those here do appear weak by comparison, however, arguments based on reactive suffering are fairly poor in construction; the suffering of one person does not invalidate the suffering of another, no more than the suffering of one child can be dismissed simply because another child suffers more; more dangerously, you are seeking to guilt those already in anguish into recovery. Does it not occur to you that many here already feel guilty, indeed, are tortured by guilt ? Your intention seems to be to try and bully people into recovery, if so, you utterly misunderstand the nature of depression. You are playing a dangerous game and playing it badly.
Relative, not reactive !
I hate you.
I could agree that this post addresses some people who are not in a dire situation. However it can not cover everyone’s unique experience where by some feel the need to eject. It’s an individual choice, the choice affects others as we’re all connected.
Perhaps instead of berating people as it’s only your projection about this issue, post something that has a positive vibe….instead of venting your own anger about a situation so many others are angry about…kind of ironic don’t you think? Cheers!