gonna make this less annoying for you guys. keep it to more of a blog thingy.
two people know I self harm, I wanted to make it three, because one persons having a bad time, another person, doesn’t really understand, and a third would be nice. I kinda picked someone, but it’s fucked up now, I just had a conversation with him, and turns out he really hates self harm, not because of prejudice, but because he’s sick of his friends self harming. he’s been falsely taught that self harm is the cause for they’re pain, and I don’t really think I can un-teach that. but ah well :3 two’s good enough for now, I don’t really HAVE to talk to anyone about it.
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Selfharming doesn’t do anything trust me. i’ve tried it. almost all my friends have. it gets you nowhere but to losing friends when people find out. i cant help that the world is so judgemental but that’s just the way it is.
Hey well idk self harm does help to cope with it but it’s still not the best thing…
Well, people usually feel some kind of “relief” from self harm. It’s like, if your heart hurts alot, and then you cut yourself, your heart still hurts, but it doesn’t hurt as much.
exactly :3 I’m trying to quit for now anyway, I’m past a real big wall, but I’m pretty sure once another one comes along I’ll start again, infact I KNOW.
it’s just, he told me that ‘it’s just a copout, not faceing the problem head on’ and that’s really quite an…well a stupid thing to say, sometimes, faceing it head on just destroys you more, I know it did for me. He had depression, but I think for him, it was more things he could sort out, things he could fix. my version, isn’t something you can just fix, it’s all about the past, things that no-one can fix.