You know what……. I’m in the same boat lol but today I realised who gives a shit and I know that sound too easy but really who are these people who step all over u? most likely there not half the person you are and all u have to realize is that your are 100 time the person these people are and you have to realize that they don’t matter the ass hats who cheated on you the people who literally fuck u all day all u have to do is realize when it is happening and fuck them back find their weaknesses and fuck them hard. I hated life until today to be frank. I went on a great triking trip and it made me realized how worthless those types of people are and how awesome nature is and everything in it. All u have to do is let go. I wanted to die because of a 3 year relationship gone bad…… it happened but I didn’t know what to do life was over to me I met new women and it just wasn’t the same it wasn’t until I saw what the world had to offer then I wanted to live. And by this I don’t mean money or a good job I mean the just go to a park and sit there and watch the birds, go fishing try meditating. I honestly don’t think you’re going to kill yourself and I’m not saying this to be a dick I’m just saying really. It’s no way to get noticed or attention. Just learn to love nature and everything will make since to you if you want to kill yourself then do it but all I have to say is there is way too much to learn in life to just off yourself. Trust me I have enough helium to kill 50 people and about 120 mg of ativan. I wanted to die until today.
Obviously you are writing this out of emotion and not rationaly thinking. I am not going to be the one to tell you that being lied to happens to everyone so just move on… Or that there are people starving and life could be worst, because the truth is no matter how worst life COULD BE, what’s CURRENTLY bad/wrong in your life right now is what’s affecting you at this moment. Even the person that has it really bad right now could have it worst so that cliche is dumb as hell.
What I will tell you is that being lied to and cheated on is horrible. It does hurt. Being lied to already hurts enough, but being cheated on damages you all around the board. You probably feel inadequate, like you weren’t enough-DON’T. Whoever cheated on you didn’t have the maturity to be able to (a) try to work on the relationship he/she was already in, (b) tell you upfront that he/she wants to see other people, (c) just be honest about what their feelings. Another thing, you may feel like you can’t trust anyone…this is a normal feeling, however VERY unhealthy. If you are feeling this way, know that you CAN trust, but just can’t give too much to the wrong person.
Make this a life lesson. Learn from the mistakes in the relationship, and whatever you do- DO NOT GO BACK TO THE CHEATER! I don’t care what you heard or who doesn’t like it. Can cheaters change? Yes, they can, just like everyone else can change for the better. HOWEVER, the likeliness of this is UNCOMMON, and it’s even more unlikely that they will not cheat again if you take them back, because they feel like they have you trapped.
If I were you, I would cut all communication off from that person. No matter how much you may want to talk to them, see them, or know what’s going on with them-CUT THEM OFF (this includes social networking sites). Right now your emotions are everywhere. You need time to clear your mind from confusiond and get yourself together before you act impulsively.
Last thing I have to say is don’t take it out on yourself. I don’t know all of the details, but cheating is usually due to the cheater’s flaws and insatiable desires, which means you are not to blame. Killing yourself isn’t going to help. Though it may make them feel guilty, that’s not going to benefit you in any way, because you don’t want to elicit guilt; You want true love. Guilt is based off of selfishness anyways…but that’s a whole other story and I’m already typing your ear off! LOL…
Hope you are okay…you can talk to me any time if you want.
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I’m sorry you have been walked over, but life isn’t always like that.
You know what……. I’m in the same boat lol but today I realised who gives a shit and I know that sound too easy but really who are these people who step all over u? most likely there not half the person you are and all u have to realize is that your are 100 time the person these people are and you have to realize that they don’t matter the ass hats who cheated on you the people who literally fuck u all day all u have to do is realize when it is happening and fuck them back find their weaknesses and fuck them hard. I hated life until today to be frank. I went on a great triking trip and it made me realized how worthless those types of people are and how awesome nature is and everything in it. All u have to do is let go. I wanted to die because of a 3 year relationship gone bad…… it happened but I didn’t know what to do life was over to me I met new women and it just wasn’t the same it wasn’t until I saw what the world had to offer then I wanted to live. And by this I don’t mean money or a good job I mean the just go to a park and sit there and watch the birds, go fishing try meditating. I honestly don’t think you’re going to kill yourself and I’m not saying this to be a dick I’m just saying really. It’s no way to get noticed or attention. Just learn to love nature and everything will make since to you if you want to kill yourself then do it but all I have to say is there is way too much to learn in life to just off yourself. Trust me I have enough helium to kill 50 people and about 120 mg of ativan. I wanted to die until today.
Obviously you are writing this out of emotion and not rationaly thinking. I am not going to be the one to tell you that being lied to happens to everyone so just move on… Or that there are people starving and life could be worst, because the truth is no matter how worst life COULD BE, what’s CURRENTLY bad/wrong in your life right now is what’s affecting you at this moment. Even the person that has it really bad right now could have it worst so that cliche is dumb as hell.
What I will tell you is that being lied to and cheated on is horrible. It does hurt. Being lied to already hurts enough, but being cheated on damages you all around the board. You probably feel inadequate, like you weren’t enough-DON’T. Whoever cheated on you didn’t have the maturity to be able to (a) try to work on the relationship he/she was already in, (b) tell you upfront that he/she wants to see other people, (c) just be honest about what their feelings. Another thing, you may feel like you can’t trust anyone…this is a normal feeling, however VERY unhealthy. If you are feeling this way, know that you CAN trust, but just can’t give too much to the wrong person.
Make this a life lesson. Learn from the mistakes in the relationship, and whatever you do- DO NOT GO BACK TO THE CHEATER! I don’t care what you heard or who doesn’t like it. Can cheaters change? Yes, they can, just like everyone else can change for the better. HOWEVER, the likeliness of this is UNCOMMON, and it’s even more unlikely that they will not cheat again if you take them back, because they feel like they have you trapped.
If I were you, I would cut all communication off from that person. No matter how much you may want to talk to them, see them, or know what’s going on with them-CUT THEM OFF (this includes social networking sites). Right now your emotions are everywhere. You need time to clear your mind from confusiond and get yourself together before you act impulsively.
Last thing I have to say is don’t take it out on yourself. I don’t know all of the details, but cheating is usually due to the cheater’s flaws and insatiable desires, which means you are not to blame. Killing yourself isn’t going to help. Though it may make them feel guilty, that’s not going to benefit you in any way, because you don’t want to elicit guilt; You want true love. Guilt is based off of selfishness anyways…but that’s a whole other story and I’m already typing your ear off! LOL…
Hope you are okay…you can talk to me any time if you want.