“You have your whole life ahead of you!”
“There is so much to live for!”
“Keep your head up!”
“Oh your husband is just stupid!”
Do you know what an ignorant thing to say that is?
To prolong the suffering of those who are broken by trying to talk them into continuing their lives is sadistic and selfish. You do it because you yourself are afraid of death and you don’t want to be faced with it, in any way. You’re extending their suffering for months at best and you know very well that they are going to off themselves in the end.
You’re creating internal conflicts for them by tempting them with empty words such as that life could be all so beautiful and promising for them while in themselves they have already decided that the right choice is to go.
Do you even have an idea how painful these internal conflicts that you are creating in them are?
When will you stop your deceptions, stop comparing with yourself and start thinking about others instead and encourage people to do what they have decided is the right choice for their lives.