Is it possible to be attracted to men, but somehow be a lezbian?
Let me go into more detail.
I think I’m bi, well, in all honesty I KNOW I am. I don’t think it’s one of those ‘experimentation’ stages, seeing as I’ve been attracted too girls from when I was like, 5 xD anyway, off topic. Due to past experiences, I can’t trust guys anymore, I hate giving them hugs, I hate when they stand next to me, and now, I freak out being alone with them. I just keep thinking they’re going to hurt me, and I don’t think I could ever date a guy.
I mean, if I find a guy that I really trust, who knows my boundaries and excepts them, and even loves them. Then I guess I wouldn’t have to worry about this, but what if I don’t?
If anyone can help, or even if you just tell me your story if you’ve been/going through this would really help.
Thanks,
Love, from the weird girl who likes guys but doesn’t like guys.
P.S I know the defintion of lezbian is being attracted too girls and only girls, and the fact I still am attracted to guys would conflict with that, but is there anything somewhat like what I am? Putting a label on it for now would really calm me down. (:
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It’s all finedin a guy who you can trust. Boy’s play but girls play too.
Honey, I know what you are feeling, for a long time, I couldn’t trust any guy, and yes. I found one who respects and loves me…But I have fallen for a few girls. Girls can hurt people just as badly as guys hurt people…
Being a lesbian means what you want it to mean. Bi, gay, pansexual, heteroflexible, homoflexible, omnisexual, it’s all relative. Even though they each have different meanings, past that they even have different meanings to each individual.
Can you be a lesbian who might be attracted to guys now and then? Of course.
Will other people most likely need an explanation every time you talk about it? Of course.
I’m queer. It’s a good word. Do whatever you feel is right for you, dear. ^-^
No girl hs ever hurt me in THAT way though xD so I’m more trusting.
that’s a great way to put it :3 thanks you guys. but in all honesty, I’ve kinda found a guy I trust I hope.