and I guess some of my other family members are too, though my mom is the one everyone bitches about. It’s not as bad as the ones you see on tv though, thank god. But I’m still sure it’s hoarding. She doesn’t throw anything away and because of that she doesn’t clean. When she does “clean” she just takes whatever crap she’s trying to get out of the way and either puts it downstairs or in her room.
This morning my grandma called a little before 7 am(about 50 mins ago) and told my mom to go pull out a cabinet my aunt was trowing away from the trash before the garbageman came to pick it up. If she’s one of the people who ***** about my mom’s house being messy, why the fuck is she telling my mom to add to the mess?!
And don’t get me wrong, I’ve tried cleaning this house SEVERAL TIMES. In face, basically all my family has. We do it so much that every summer we basically dedicate several weeks to just cleaning this hellhole and burning the shit we can burn cause if we throw it in the trash my mom just goes out and brings it back in. And whenever we do get it actually clean, I can give you maybe 2-3 weeks before it’s back in the same condition it was.
Also, if hoarding is genetic, then I may have it. But I swear to god I will shoot myself before I get anywhere near how my mother is.