I’m 33 and on disability for bipolar and BPD. I’ve been to the hospital 10 times in 13 years. Have had several pseudo-suicide attempts and I’ve burnt and cut myself several times in the past 8 years. The future feels very lonely and poor. After I pay my bills and rent, I have about $100 left for the whole month. I’m worried about the government running out of money and then I’ll probably be homeless. I live alone in a city where I don’t know anyone. I’m in therapy, but I don’t know what good it’s going to do. What I really want is companionship, but no woman wants to be with me. I don’t see how things are going to get better. I’m just barely staying alive. It’s been a long time since I’ve felt joy or happiness in my life. Everyday I wake up and feel this horrible emptiness inside. I often think about using my disability check to go buy a .22 rifle. I just couldn’t do that to my mother though. If she dies before me, I don’t know what I’m going to do. I just don’t see things ever getting better. I guess I’m just supposed to accept my life and my limitations. It’s very hard to just be happy feeling that I’m going to be poor and alone my whole life. I have very poor social skills and I’m not good around people, but at the same time I crave to have friends and a girlfriend. Oh well, whatever.
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That whole it is what it is thing is bullshit. I guess it’s just me, but i don’t like the accepting the fact that i’m not suppose to be happy bid. It’s fucked up. Take what you want. No woman wants to be with you because you say that. Say “every woman wants to be with me.” Confidence bro, from man to man, its all about confidence. You could look like the fucking Grinch. The Grinch got a girl. why? Confidence. He went up and asked and didn’t care if they said no. If they say no, then you move on to the next girl. You jus gotta get used to putting yourself out there first before you’ll get a yes. You want them to tell you no at first. then, when you got your confidence and have been blown off so much it don’t matter to you no more, then that’s when your confidence will show and you can ask a girl out without a problem. Seems stupid but by God it works.
I’ll be your friend. 🙂 I lack them, myself, as well as social skills.
TC is totally right. girls just wanna be loved for who they are
God knows they do. And guys jus want their junk loved for what it is…