I’m trying to cut ties with people, be it personal or professional. I realized that I go days without talking or seeing “friends” and that used to bother me, now it makes it easier to write ppl off. Had a drink with a friend last night, one of the few true friends I have, and he remarked that I was melancholy. I thought I was just mellow (big difference) but apparently not.
Cutting ties with people is not as difficult as I thought it would be. I guess I kinda don’t care anymore what others think so it’s easy to not call, text, e-mail, or see. I’m still a few months away from my date (it’s marked D-Day in my calendar) but I like being prepared and want to have everything worked out and resolved before my transition.
Funny, I’m more at peace now that I have a plan.
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It’s good that you have a plan… plans allow you to focus day by day, task by task, take things one step at a time. Maybe you can try living in the same way!
I’ve cut ties with most of my “friends”. I let them drift away from me. Only 4 left to go which I can’t seem to get rid of. Oh well. By the way, I like your username. Mama Hen. I feel like a mother to my pals. *sigh*
I agree with one_day. It is good to have a plan, yes..
How do you plan to do it? I am planningj the helium, ******** route but I’n still not sure how to go about it….